Posted by jay on January 21, 2004, at 20:23:08
In reply to Help dealing with my husbands depression, posted by jcsierra on January 21, 2004, at 14:27:26
Hi..
Well, first off, welcome. Second, it sounds like your Hubby isn't getting proper treatment if he is miserable and angry all the time. This is obviously very tough for you, and I know a bit watching my Mom live with my Dad's depression for the past 20 years. (And mine!) First, you may want to both educate, and find some support, for yourself. There are support-groups for family members, and it may very well be you will need support through most of your life and marriage. It's usually a long-term deal, but you do have a lot to gain, including a "well" husband who is more sensitive to your pain, and more gentle. Once your Husband gets the right treatment, and I am warning this may be awhile, there is something for everyone to gain.
If you can, talk to his doctor about your experiences...maybe try journaling them, and may be best to seek support beyond your Husband for now. You can't do this all on your own.
Please come back for further support....it's a start.
Best wishes,
Jay
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