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what a see saw ride this thread is!!

Posted by Kathie on May 27, 2000, at 11:44:27

In reply to Re: Hey boBB, posted by boBb on May 25, 2000, at 23:25:34

I have been sitting here at my computer, in my pj's still, waiting for my coffee to brew...which is done now so I am going to grab a cup..........ahhhh, yummy.....anyway, where was I?? Oh yes, I read this thread from top to bottom and I have found it very interesting. I see tina, noa and carol ann reaching out to help a soul who is in obvious pain, only to have their compassion and concern turned around and used to hurt them. I see boBB, who sometimes has wonderful things to say to people one moment, turn on anyone who offers him any kind of comfort the next. After reading this thread, I will never offer boBB any kind of encouragement or sympathy or any type of kindness because it appears to me that is not what he is looking for, and to do so brings out the worst in him. I wonder if he reacts this way to stir up trouble on the board, to see what sort of reaction he can get from the masses....or if he really is so messed up he can't recognise human kindness for what it is. If the dark side is what he wants, I will pass him Darth Vader's light saber and he can go over to the "dark side."

My advice to you others....not boBB, as I would never presume to give that lad advice!.....is to not let him get to you. I read his words and I often find them sarcastic and downright amusing...in fact the only post I have ever read out loud to my husband was one of boBB's and he laughed with real appreciation!!

This post is not a cut to boBB, as I believe I can appreciate him for what he represents to me...I don't feel the need to offer him anything, he doesn't want that from any of us anyways....his negative views of the world are interesting, but certainly nothing I want to challenge. I try and harbour a positive view of the world and the challenge of day to day survival is enough for my.

tina, noa, carol ann...don't let boBB get you down, don't let him hurt your feelings, don't let him waste your compassion..all three of you ladies are in the throes of your own pain and suffering and yet you take the time, make the effort too try and reach out and help someone. To be rejected as you have been in this thread can only cause you more pain, save yourselves. There are people in the world who don't want to be saved....dole out your kindness to those that deserve it.

Well that is all I have to say over this cup of morning coffee. Take care ladies.

Kathie


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