Posted by PattyG on March 15, 2000, at 22:23:34
In reply to Re: this old house, posted by harry b. on March 14, 2000, at 17:44:38
Hiya Harry,
I understand about the need to reciprocate. But you know, if he's really of "worth," I don't think he'll bolt and run if you don't entertain in your home right away. Perhaps you can set a goal. Sit down and make a calendar of events to take place regarding the cleaning of the abode. Give yourself one week per room - write out your objectives with regard to everything. Always entertain in the evening, use low lighting, candles and nice background music - the attention is more on the ambiance and mood of the place rather than the decor!
Until then, invite your friend to join you at one of your favorite haunts - some quaint, obscure place where they serve comfort foods in a library atmosphere or take in a comedic stage play that will ensure an enjoyable evening. Spring is springing - visit a flower and patio show or go to a flea market (indoors, perhaps) Scour the entertainment section of your newspaper and find out "what's up." (oh geez......I guess that's supposed to be....."wazzzz up-p-p-p?!) Or Check the Internet (or your state's tourism dept. and find out if there are any festivals or special events in the near future.)
The pleasure of your company should be sufficient, but it might be nice to have a plan and work toward that. In the meantime, don't let your problems get in the way of enjoying life! You know what they say.........."If you have one foot in "yesterday" and the other foot in "tomorrow," you pee all over "today!"
Take care:)
P.S. - You might invest in some nice boxes with lids to store some of the clutter in or use square/rectangular baskets.........that's what I call my "crap" with distinction!
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