Posted by Adam on November 17, 1999, at 17:07:07
In reply to That dish is chillin', posted by Bob on November 17, 1999, at 14:56:11
Best served cold, dude, best served cold. Not that I'm any good at following
my own advice.Case in point, much of my apprehension about cohabitation stems from my own rather
unhappy experience. I lived with someone for three years, and when we started out,
things were really pretty happy. But as time went on, things that didn't seem like
such a big deal in the beginning became significant problems that ultimately couldn't
be solved. How we neglected to share our feelings on certain very important subjects
(kids, vis-a-vis depression, esp.) is beyond me now, but I guess we were young and
in love and love conquers all, right? Why worry? Having to disengage youself from
someone you share practically everything with is an can be an excruciating experience.
I do believe it's better to have loved and lost, blah, blah, blah, but not to have lost
in quite such a heartbreaking way.
> ... just my mad, but cool, panderings ....
> Bob
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