Posted by Nancy on April 10, 1999, at 17:02:57
In reply to Being considerate, posted by Muse on April 10, 1999, at 7:37:09
Can we all just get over this hump. I agree that we're all here in need of support. So, let's just get back to it. It was a learning experience like everything posted on this board. We can get through this. I also sent an email to Terry. I let her know; a) that she was important, too and b) not to leave us over an issue that can be resolved and c) that we are all struggling.
Thank you, to everyone for being here.
Nancy :) ;) :)
> I have been saddened by what I have read. I thought this was supposed to be a helpful, supportive site. While you may not agree with what Terry said, could you not use some maturity in communication? It seems you spouted off at the keyboard as easily as you might verbally - reacting emotionally without thinking about what you are saying. I certainly have been guilty of saying things I shouldn't in a tone and intensity I shouldn't - but, like Dr. Bob has said, message boards provide an opportunity to THINK before you "speak". Terry was clearly finding a niche at this site; I grieve that someone has been driven away by such rudeness. I believe you need to re-read (assuming you have read it to begin with) Dr. Bob's introduction to this message board. I hope for your sake you can find a way to express your disagreement on this board and in life in a less hurtful way. Since people on this board do have problems, I will allow that the way you have expressed your disagreement and dislike is a symptom of something you are currently being treated for, and will try not to be as harshly judgmental as I would like to be right now. I wish you well.
poster:Nancy
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