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Posted by Angielala on January 7, 2004, at 10:41:19
Anyone have anything to get my mind off of how much I hate my job?
Posted by zenhussy on January 7, 2004, at 11:09:00
In reply to I hate my job, posted by Angielala on January 7, 2004, at 10:41:19
Posted by Penny on January 7, 2004, at 11:09:45
In reply to I hate my job, posted by Angielala on January 7, 2004, at 10:41:19
Sorry - not much I can say to ease your pain, but I do understand - I hate my job too! I just keep telling myself that it's not forever - one of these days I AM going to change careers and then it will be bye-bye to the days of sitting at a desk behind a computer. I can't wait!
But, until then, gotta pay the bills!
BTW - I'm hooked on the egg game on that website you posted above. Not good - considering I'm playing at work! lol :-)
Posted by octopusprime on January 7, 2004, at 11:12:06
In reply to I hate my job, posted by Angielala on January 7, 2004, at 10:41:19
distractions:
http://www.shockwave.com
click "Daily Jigsaw Puzzle"or, for the lurking socialist and anti-materialist in you,
http://whywork.org/or, failing that,
http://www.monster.comsorry i have been there and done that. i have only held two jobs that i truly hated. the only solution was to leave.
there's a difference between jobs you hate, and jobs that you just aren't super keen on. the lack of keen-ness can be improved, but sheer and utter hatred and loathing is hard to overcome.
Posted by Penny on January 7, 2004, at 11:37:53
In reply to Re: Wednesday time killer » Angielala, posted by zenhussy on January 7, 2004, at 11:09:00
Posted by Angielala on January 7, 2004, at 11:47:06
In reply to Re: Wednesday time killer » Angielala, posted by zenhussy on January 7, 2004, at 11:09:00
Hahahaha- perfect! Thank you!
> http://www.yetanotherdot.com/asp/80s.html
Posted by Angielala on January 7, 2004, at 11:48:51
In reply to Re: Join the club » Angielala, posted by Penny on January 7, 2004, at 11:09:45
Let's start a club- I hate my job club "IHMJC" hehehe
I sit behind this computer, waiti for something to blow up and then use computer languages to fix it. I feel like I'm becoming a robot. BLAH
> Sorry - not much I can say to ease your pain, but I do understand - I hate my job too! I just keep telling myself that it's not forever - one of these days I AM going to change careers and then it will be bye-bye to the days of sitting at a desk behind a computer. I can't wait!
>
> But, until then, gotta pay the bills!
>
> BTW - I'm hooked on the egg game on that website you posted above. Not good - considering I'm playing at work! lol :-)
Posted by Angielala on January 7, 2004, at 11:51:12
In reply to Re: I hate my job, posted by octopusprime on January 7, 2004, at 11:12:06
Great sites- thank you!!
I am just realizing that I hate this job- I thought I was just not too keen on it- but I foudn that it is true hatred. Blah
> distractions:
>
> http://www.shockwave.com
> click "Daily Jigsaw Puzzle"
>
> or, for the lurking socialist and anti-materialist in you,
> http://whywork.org/
>
> or, failing that,
> http://www.monster.com
>
> sorry i have been there and done that. i have only held two jobs that i truly hated. the only solution was to leave.
>
> there's a difference between jobs you hate, and jobs that you just aren't super keen on. the lack of keen-ness can be improved, but sheer and utter hatred and loathing is hard to overcome.
Posted by Poet on January 7, 2004, at 11:58:08
In reply to I hate my job, posted by Angielala on January 7, 2004, at 10:41:19
Hi,
My favorite weekly work distraction.
It's the only "news" I trust, except the Daily Show, which alas I can't watch at work.
I'd join the club, but I have a second interview for a job on Friday, please pray I get it. Otherwise I nominate myself for president. Noooo!
Poet
Posted by All Done on January 7, 2004, at 13:16:50
In reply to Re: Join the club, posted by Angielala on January 7, 2004, at 11:48:51
> Let's start a club- I hate my job club "IHMJC" hehehe
> > Can I join? Although my current job is so overwhelming at the moment, I'm not sure how often I can participate : ( and please don't tell me I have to interview for a spot in the club.
I would absolutely love to change careers (I'm an accountant). I want to do something - anything - where I would have fulfilling interaction with people. $$$ are the problem, though. Any suggestions?
All Done
Posted by Penny on January 7, 2004, at 14:43:12
In reply to IHMJ Club applicant, posted by All Done on January 7, 2004, at 13:16:50
> I would absolutely love to change careers (I'm an accountant). I want to do something - anything - where I would have fulfilling interaction with people. $$$ are the problem, though. Any suggestions?
I've considered several things, but, after (no joke) being told by several therapists (including the one who led my group when I was in the psych ward this summer!) that I should consider becoming a therapist, I think that's what I'm going to do. It was something I'd considered before, but then played around with other ideas. What I know - I want to work with children, and I can't make a living as a nanny or a daycare worker or stay-at-home mom (unless I find a rich hubby, which isn't looking promising). I thought about nursing, but one of my issues with my career is having a boss - b/c I've never had great bosses - so I'd like to be my own boss one day. If I get my MSW and become a child therapist, I can have my own practice one day, and that, to me, would be ideal!!!
Anyway - IMO life is too short to spend most of your waking hours doing something that you don't find fulfilling. I know, though, that we all have bills to pay, mouths to feed, etc., so we sometimes have to keep working at jobs we hate. But I tell myself it's not forever!!!
Perhaps you should examine your interests - see if there is a way you could make money doing something fulfilling???
P
Posted by Dinah on January 7, 2004, at 16:50:53
In reply to IHMJ Club applicant, posted by All Done on January 7, 2004, at 13:16:50
I want to join!
Too much stress, too many deadlines, too many bosses.
Unfortunately, good pay, flexible hours, and as long as I do the work, they leave me pretty much alone. Oh yes, and I don't mind the actual work and am pretty good at it.
But I still hate it.
Posted by jay on January 7, 2004, at 22:27:09
In reply to Re: IHMJ Club applicant, posted by Dinah on January 7, 2004, at 16:50:53
Now forming..looking for a CEO...the "I Hate Being Unemployed" club. Nice cozy sleeping bag located in downtown urban area. Nice cool temps. now reaching about 28 degrees. Wide selection of food-stuffs....from the resteraunt(sp?) dump bin.
No need to shave, change clothes, bathe...ever!!Sign up, today!...heh
Peace y'all
Jay
Posted by jane d on January 7, 2004, at 23:39:40
In reply to IHBU Club applicant, posted by jay on January 7, 2004, at 22:27:09
> Now forming..looking for a CEO...the "I Hate Being Unemployed" club. Nice cozy sleeping bag located in downtown urban area. Nice cool temps. now reaching about 28 degrees. Wide selection of food-stuffs....from the resteraunt(sp?) dump bin.
> No need to shave, change clothes, bathe...ever!!
>
> Sign up, today!...heh
>
> Peace y'all> Jay
Can I bring my tent? Or do I need to "spend down" before being eligible?
Jane
(not sure if that phrase is used in Canada. Here it's usually used to describe how Sr citizens have to use up most of their assets before being eligible for Medicare)
Posted by All Done on January 7, 2004, at 23:39:56
In reply to Re: IHMJ Club applicant, posted by Dinah on January 7, 2004, at 16:50:53
> I want to join!
>
> Too much stress, too many deadlines, too many bosses.
>
> Unfortunately, good pay, flexible hours, and as long as I do the work, they leave me pretty much alone. Oh yes, and I don't mind the actual work and am pretty good at it.
>
> But I still hate it.
I think we need to make sure the IHMJ Club meetings do not interfere with the Perfect Therapy Client Club meetings, though. BTW, do perfect therapy clients complain about everyday work woes during sessions? To me, it seems a bit unproductive, but sometimes work gets me feeling so down and depressed...
Posted by All Done on January 7, 2004, at 23:58:04
In reply to Re: IHMJ Club applicant » All Done, posted by Penny on January 7, 2004, at 14:43:12
>
> I've considered several things, but, after (no joke) being told by several therapists (including the one who led my group when I was in the psych ward this summer!) that I should consider becoming a therapist, I think that's what I'm going to do. It was something I'd considered before, but then played around with other ideas. What I know - I want to work with children, and I can't make a living as a nanny or a daycare worker or stay-at-home mom (unless I find a rich hubby, which isn't looking promising). I thought about nursing, but one of my issues with my career is having a boss - b/c I've never had great bosses - so I'd like to be my own boss one day. If I get my MSW and become a child therapist, I can have my own practice one day, and that, to me, would be ideal!!!>> Wow! That sounds so great for you! How nice to have other therapists encouraging you to join them. That must give you so much confidence. Good luck with school. I'm sure you'll do a great job!
> Anyway - IMO life is too short to spend most of your waking hours doing something that you don't find fulfilling. I know, though, that we all have bills to pay, mouths to feed, etc., so we sometimes have to keep working at jobs we hate. But I tell myself it's not forever!!!> > That's all I find myself saying, "it's not forever..." I want more than anything to stay at home with my 19 month old son. My husband and I figure financially, I will be able to do that in three years. I guess it's good that we have a timeline, but then sometimes I wonder if it would be worth a career change - or should I just stick it out?
> Perhaps you should examine your interests - see if there is a way you could make money doing something fulfilling???
>> I work on this with my friend who is interested in owning her own business. We have a lot in common, so I'm hoping we can come up with something that we could do together that would be oh so much fun while, of course, turning a bit of a profit.
All Done
Posted by Angielala on January 8, 2004, at 11:20:58
In reply to IHMJ Club applicant, posted by All Done on January 7, 2004, at 13:16:50
See- $$$ is my problem too. My fiance has his own Computer Biz in Boston- it's really doing well- he started it in May and they are still in the black. They have this great chance of getting some GREAT office space and new prospects in Rhode Island. My job, as much as I dislike it, pays me double what people my age make (especially considering that I have no college diploma) and I get health, dental, vision and mental health care for the both of us (the company I work for gives great domestic partner benefits) So, I'm the breadwinner. My fiance has done SO much for me, he helped me get back on my feet. All I want is to be able to help him, which is what I'm doign with this job.
The problem- I hate it.... I remind myself why I'm doing it and feel a little better- but I can't help but HATING wasting time with this work I do for MACHINES... the only people I help are the ones having problems with their computers... I'm a people person- I want to work with kids... I am a web designer- i design in Flash, but with this horrible economy, the last people getting hired at web designers.... and working with kids often pays so little it's hard to live... right now me and the new hubby are saving for our wedding and a house... with both our incomes we will be able to do this. If I changed careers now, it wouldn't happen.
Ahhh... the pain we go through for love, eh?
> > Let's start a club- I hate my job club "IHMJC" hehehe
>
> > > Can I join? Although my current job is so overwhelming at the moment, I'm not sure how often I can participate : ( and please don't tell me I have to interview for a spot in the club.
>
> I would absolutely love to change careers (I'm an accountant). I want to do something - anything - where I would have fulfilling interaction with people. $$$ are the problem, though. Any suggestions?
>
> All Done
>
>
Posted by Angielala on January 8, 2004, at 11:26:58
In reply to Re: IHMJ Club applicant » Dinah, posted by All Done on January 7, 2004, at 23:39:56
SEE! This is why we need the IHMJC- so we can counsel each other's work woes!
This might sound a bit.... sexist to some, but I dont' mean it that way... but, are there any ladies here that work with mostly men and get treated like a den mom?
CAUSE I DO! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
hehe
> > I want to join!
> >
> > Too much stress, too many deadlines, too many bosses.
> >
> > Unfortunately, good pay, flexible hours, and as long as I do the work, they leave me pretty much alone. Oh yes, and I don't mind the actual work and am pretty good at it.
> >
> > But I still hate it.
>
>
> I think we need to make sure the IHMJ Club meetings do not interfere with the Perfect Therapy Client Club meetings, though. BTW, do perfect therapy clients complain about everyday work woes during sessions? To me, it seems a bit unproductive, but sometimes work gets me feeling so down and depressed...
>
Posted by Poet on January 8, 2004, at 11:40:53
In reply to Re: IHMJ Club applicant, posted by Angielala on January 8, 2004, at 11:26:58
I had a job where I was the only woman in my department of roughly 10 people. So I guess I'm a former den mother.
I openly call myself Queen of Employment Losers, so can I be a charter member of the club, even though I hope tomorrow to finally get a job I will like? I'm not bragging, I've had more interviews than I care to remember, hence my title. Can I join, please?
Poet
Posted by Angielala on January 8, 2004, at 12:57:53
In reply to Re: IHMJ Club applicant » Angielala, posted by Poet on January 8, 2004, at 11:40:53
I give you bragging rights- a job you like is WORTH bragging about!
What is it doing?
> I had a job where I was the only woman in my department of roughly 10 people. So I guess I'm a former den mother.
>
> I openly call myself Queen of Employment Losers, so can I be a charter member of the club, even though I hope tomorrow to finally get a job I will like? I'm not bragging, I've had more interviews than I care to remember, hence my title. Can I join, please?
>
> Poet
>
>
Posted by Poet on January 8, 2004, at 15:49:32
In reply to Re: IHMJ Club applicant, posted by Angielala on January 8, 2004, at 12:57:53
Assisting with fundraising for a health care organization. I've been taking writing courses to keep my brain active, including fundraising and grantwriting. It's so perfect, I can't believe my luck has changed. But it has to have as my office window opens and jumping out looks more and more inviting!
Poet
Posted by octopusprime on January 8, 2004, at 23:36:46
In reply to Re: IHMJ Club applicant, posted by Angielala on January 8, 2004, at 11:26:58
> This might sound a bit.... sexist to some, but I dont' mean it that way... but, are there any ladies here that work with mostly men and get treated like a den mom?
hmmm ... i have never been treated like a den mom
sometimes i'm just one of the boys - probably because i drink and cuss and out-geek them on some topics.
sometimes i'm the secretary - doing all the social calls and writing and "girly" things.
sometimes i'm invisible - but that was just at one job where everybody else worshipped at the altar of the golf cart and i just don't believe in golf.
but never a den mom - probably because i am usually younger than my coworkers.
given all of the above i'd rather be one of the boys. but i think that's a topic for another day.
i don't hate my job, per se, so i won't apply to your club. however, i do hate working in general, and would like to return to school (and stay there permanently this time) if it wasn't for a little matter of $$$. i liked university and i would be thrilled to return.
Posted by Angielala on January 9, 2004, at 8:44:08
In reply to Re: IHMJ Club applicant » Angielala, posted by Poet on January 8, 2004, at 15:49:32
Poet- I'm SOOO happy that things have turned around. It's not luck- it's karma... you DESERVE this :)
> Assisting with fundraising for a health care organization. I've been taking writing courses to keep my brain active, including fundraising and grantwriting. It's so perfect, I can't believe my luck has changed. But it has to have as my office window opens and jumping out looks more and more inviting!
>
> Poet
Posted by Angielala on January 9, 2004, at 8:46:02
In reply to working with mostly men, posted by octopusprime on January 8, 2004, at 23:36:46
That's the weird part- I'm the youngest person in my building and they still have me do all the girly things... though they treat me like on of the guys because I'll do the same out-geek (I love doing that to guys), cuss... but they still think it's ok to unload stupid "typing" tasks on me.
Gah
> > This might sound a bit.... sexist to some, but I dont' mean it that way... but, are there any ladies here that work with mostly men and get treated like a den mom?
>
> hmmm ... i have never been treated like a den mom
>
> sometimes i'm just one of the boys - probably because i drink and cuss and out-geek them on some topics.
>
> sometimes i'm the secretary - doing all the social calls and writing and "girly" things.
>
> sometimes i'm invisible - but that was just at one job where everybody else worshipped at the altar of the golf cart and i just don't believe in golf.
>
> but never a den mom - probably because i am usually younger than my coworkers.
>
> given all of the above i'd rather be one of the boys. but i think that's a topic for another day.
>
> i don't hate my job, per se, so i won't apply to your club. however, i do hate working in general, and would like to return to school (and stay there permanently this time) if it wasn't for a little matter of $$$. i liked university and i would be thrilled to return.
Posted by All Done on January 9, 2004, at 9:58:22
In reply to Re: IHMJ Club applicant » Angielala, posted by Poet on January 8, 2004, at 15:49:32
> Assisting with fundraising for a health care organization. I've been taking writing courses to keep my brain active, including fundraising and grantwriting. It's so perfect, I can't believe my luck has changed. But it has to have as my office window opens and jumping out looks more and more inviting!
>
> PoetGood luck today, Poet!!! I know you'll do great!
All Done
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