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Posted by milly on May 7, 2006, at 15:01:06
feel hopeless
no good to anyone
waste of space
cr*p at supporting anyone
bad, very bad
someone suggested at church i was letting myself be used by the devil when I was only answering truthfully how I was feeling. I guess i should have just said 'i'm fine'
confused very confused
bad milly
stupid milly
used milly
waste of space milly
i shouldn't be here(babble),i'm no good to anyone
Posted by madeline on May 7, 2006, at 15:11:31
In reply to Feeling pretty low, actually very low, posted by milly on May 7, 2006, at 15:01:06
Hello? Milly?
Are you kidding me? Everytime I look at where you have posted I smile. You add so much to babble, It would be a HUGE loss if you left.
I'm so sorry you are feeling bad right now. But it won't last. Try to think of a time when you felt good. How are your chickens?
I'll be thinking about you.
Maddie
Posted by Dinah on May 7, 2006, at 15:26:04
In reply to Feeling pretty low, actually very low, posted by milly on May 7, 2006, at 15:01:06
You shouldn't be upset with yourself. I'm guessing that was NOT what Jesus would have that person do. (I always prefer that to what would Jesus do, personally, because I suspect that not many people could live up to that standard.)
Perhaps you could look up a few pertinent Bible verses that will remind you that you are a beloved child of God, much valued by Him and by those who love their neighbors as themselves, whether or not they're religious. And maybe have your husband give next week's sermons about moats and specks and stones and glass houses.
And perhaps you could look to your fellow Babblers who see much good in you, along with a lot of pain. I wish you didn't have the pain.
Posted by canadagirl on May 7, 2006, at 17:22:45
In reply to Feeling pretty low, actually very low, posted by milly on May 7, 2006, at 15:01:06
Hey Milly, I like you and I think you are a good and worthwhile person - just for being you.
I think that churchgoer who said you were >>>letting (yourself) be used by the devil <<< is silly, Milly! Hang in there. (from a churchgoer who does NOT think you are being used by the devil.)
Posted by zazenduck on May 8, 2006, at 7:57:55
In reply to Feeling pretty low, actually very low, posted by milly on May 7, 2006, at 15:01:06
Milly I'm sorry that you feel so bad. I don't know what to say but I don't agree at all with the bad things you said about yourself. You know what they say in therapy FEELINGS AREN'T FACTS Just because you feel bad doesn't mean you are bad.
The lady at church was mean and nasty I think. I hope you can avoid her from now on since you've seen that side of her.
I think you're bright and creative and sensitive and kind etc etc. (I also liked the pictures you posted of your chickens.)
Did your doctor call back and have any new treatment options or anything for you?
Posted by happyflower on May 8, 2006, at 8:16:13
In reply to Re: Feeling pretty low, actually very low » milly, posted by zazenduck on May 8, 2006, at 7:57:55
I think you are wonderful and sweet. Don't let the comment of one person take something away from you. ((((((milly)))))
Posted by B2chica on May 8, 2006, at 10:02:56
In reply to Feeling pretty low, actually very low, posted by milly on May 7, 2006, at 15:01:06
((((((((milly))))))))
so sorry you are feeling so bad right now.
i wish i could so something.
i think what that 'church goer' said is just rediculouus and extremely insensitive! sometimes people are so caught up in their own belief they forget about the difference between theory and application.
maybe you should have spit up pea soup on her (hehe).sorry.
i just hate to hear you so hard on yourself, and then to hear that others essentially join in.
i care about you here milly.
you are a good person.b2c
Posted by TherapyGirl on May 8, 2006, at 11:58:37
In reply to Feeling pretty low, actually very low, posted by milly on May 7, 2006, at 15:01:06
(((((((((((((((((Milly)))))))))))))))))
You are a wonderful person and you have given me great support in my short time here on Babble. I would really, really miss you if you stopped coming by.
Posted by milly on May 8, 2006, at 13:19:12
In reply to Feeling pretty low, actually very low, posted by milly on May 7, 2006, at 15:01:06
I'm too tired to thank you all personally, no sleep last night, but your posts mean't everything to me. i have printed them off to keep them near to me.
Thanksmadeline - chickens are fine although i have been too tired to collect the eggs today, one of the ducks has gone broody and bites me when i collect her eggs (maybe i'll let her sit on a couple to keep her happy)
Dinah- thanks i find it really difficult to read my bible at the moment, many reasons why and it's hard having a hubby whose a pastor because he isn't really a pastor to me
canadagirl- thanks i was quite shocked that she could think like that and now regret my honesty i wish i'd left it all 'inside'
Zazenduck- I had a letter through requesting i attend the inpatient facility on 17th (3 days before they seem to think i will be liable to do something to him) i don't know if they plan to keep me in to keep me out of harms way but muffy has told me it will be not so bad if that happens
happyflower- thanks i have been following your saga and you are one brave and courageous cookie, i'm sure you did the right thing telling him.He was trying to have his 'bread buttered both sides' Good on ya
B2c -thanks i just feel so vulnerable all over again and wish i'd remembered that people in real life don't have the insight of friends on babble
therapygirl- i feel a bit better today and i don't think i could leave babble i just feel guilty when i have so little to offer, saw my brother today (1st time in 2 years) talked about babble and being understood here and he thought i should never leave!!! i guess it save him having to understand me!!
Muffy - thanks, thanks, thanks so much for being there for me.
Anyway went back to sculpture today, first time since i freaked out, only one person turned up apart from me (& the tutor) so i am desperatly trying to not think that it is because i freaked out that they didn't come back
milly
Posted by muffled on May 8, 2006, at 16:20:21
In reply to Thanks guys, all of you and muffled, posted by milly on May 8, 2006, at 13:19:12
Holy crap Milly, you my hero!!! You went back. You so got guts. You so not a quitter. You SO gonna be ok. You so gonna get thru this.
We with you Milly, cuz we understand.
You not so different. We all got our things.
Your great to keep posting too.
People learn and feel better bout themselves when they read stuff. You help others by talking of yourself. When the time is right, you can help others cuz you are one of us and you know how it is.
Your time will come.
Meantime keep posting, we care and want to know how you doing.
Babblemails are always welcome too.
Take care,
Muffled
Posted by Fall Girl on May 13, 2006, at 10:37:17
In reply to Feeling pretty low, actually very low, posted by milly on May 7, 2006, at 15:01:06
KIND Milly
Read my newbie post and directed me to the psych board.
Thank you, Milly.
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