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Posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 10:09:02
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) » daisym, posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 19:16:00
> I love kissing, soft gentle lips, it is a prelude of what is to come, no pun intended! LOL
>
Me too, hope this doesn't trigger anyone, but my husband and I have a very deep and connected relationship. It's taken us years to get there considering that I was abused for years and years. I never thought I'd ever let anyone touch me, but he's so gentle with me. He loves me so much, he's so incredibly caring, and would never do anything to hurt me. He's always waited for me to be ready, even when it's taken days, weeks, months, even more than a year!And now it's so incrediby special when we get together and kiss and our lips meet so softly, and the passion builds, maybe some exchange of whispered words, maybe a gaze, just the right touching, bodies getting electrifieds with sexual tension.....nothing like it. Of course it has to be the right person, the right time, etc....
And then there's warm snugglies, that's different. A safe warm haven of comfort and closeness, and he gives me that too, which I love.
fw
Posted by happyflower on October 3, 2005, at 10:22:00
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) ***trigger***, posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 10:09:02
I wish I could have what you have in your marraige FW. I am so jeolous! Maybe it is what I am missing in my life that makes me feel like there is a huge bleeding hole in my heart. :(
Posted by happyflower on October 3, 2005, at 10:23:25
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) » happyflower, posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 9:57:30
> OMGosh, you are so freaking bad, I thought I was going to die! LOL You are too funny, but I know you want to.
>
> fwWe missed you last night during our crazy time, this is just your thing to talk about! LOL How do you know that I want to? LOL Am I that transparent? LOL :)
Posted by happyflower on October 3, 2005, at 10:27:13
In reply to Re: OH, No I am going to just die! » happyflower, posted by Tamar on October 2, 2005, at 20:31:15
I didn't see him at the gym, and he says he believes in exercise. Well shouldn't he follow his own advice? Doesn't he know he is suppose to be there for my sceanery? LOL What else do I have to look at? LOL
Posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 10:28:41
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) » fairywings, posted by happyflower on October 3, 2005, at 10:23:25
>> Am I that transparent? LOL :)
YUP! ; )
Posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 10:31:02
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) ***trigger*** » fairywings, posted by happyflower on October 3, 2005, at 10:22:00
> I wish I could have what you have in your marraige FW. I am so jeolous! Maybe it is what I am missing in my life that makes me feel like there is a huge bleeding hole in my heart. :(
I'm so so sorry, I didn't mean to make you feel bad. i know my husband is one in a million, and I worry every day that one of these days he'll get sick of me and leave. once he fell in love with me, 20 years ago, i started to feel that way, and it's never stopped worrying me! i hope that your heart will be filled with joy and happiness really soon!fw
Posted by happyflower on October 3, 2005, at 10:36:27
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) ***trigger***, posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 10:31:02
You never make me feel bad Jazzy. I thought I had that once with my DH, but he just doesn't want me anymore. Some times marriage just sucks and I hate it the way it makes me feel like an unwanted child. When will life give me a fricken break and let me be happy totally? Now I am at peace with my past, but now my present just sucks. Sorry to be wineing. I just want someone to fill my heart . I miss being wanted.
Posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 11:17:53
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) ***trigger*** » fairywings, posted by happyflower on October 3, 2005, at 10:36:27
Posted by happyflower on October 3, 2005, at 12:44:25
In reply to Re: I'm so sorry! ; ( (nm) » happyflower, posted by fairywings on October 3, 2005, at 11:17:53
Posted by terrics on October 4, 2005, at 20:33:24
In reply to I kissed my T!!! :), posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 17:20:02
Good way to start a conversation on this board. I bet alot of us really wish we could kiss our Ts. LOL terrics
Posted by happyflower on October 4, 2005, at 21:55:30
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) » happyflower, posted by terrics on October 4, 2005, at 20:33:24
> Good way to start a conversation on this board. I bet alot of us really wish we could kiss our Ts. LOL terrics
>Yeah, I thought it would get everyone attention, I guess I am needing attention like a neglected 2 yr. old. But I guess I am letting my joking get too carried away and I have seem to have offended some people by my silliness. Oh, well.
Tell us more, would you like to kiss your T? LOL
Posted by terrics on October 5, 2005, at 10:39:04
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) » terrics, posted by happyflower on October 4, 2005, at 21:55:30
Hi again, I would love to kiss my T. She would die. I think that wuold be funny too. I am sure that would be the end of therapy. terrics
Posted by happyflower on October 5, 2005, at 11:21:35
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) » happyflower, posted by terrics on October 5, 2005, at 10:39:04
> Hi again, I would love to kiss my T. She would die. I think that wuold be funny too. I am sure that would be the end of therapy. terrics
Yup, a very quick termination! LOL what a fun way to end therapy! LOL :) My T has a beard so I wonder if it tickles. Never kissed a man with facial hair.
Posted by greyskyeyes on October 5, 2005, at 11:57:43
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) » terrics, posted by happyflower on October 5, 2005, at 11:21:35
Hi, pardon me but I gotta chime in here!
>>> I would love to kiss my T. She would die. I am sure that would be the end of therapy.
Kissing my T would be *way* too weird... not just the same-sex thing, either. Maybe b/c she's my mother's age and I'm not exactly kissy with my mom. Even a hug would be weird. Now, my husband's (former) T, that's a different story... I would definitely have loved to kiss him! (and believe me, we did that plenty in my fantasies!! LOL) I did hug him at our final couples session, which was nice. ~sigh~
>>> My T has a beard so I wonder if it tickles. Never kissed a man with facial hair.
Oh yeah it tickles! But they look so nice on men. Ya gotta watch out for the mustaches though, especially after they've drunk something!! Ick.
~ grey
Posted by Tamar on October 5, 2005, at 12:59:24
In reply to Re: I kissed my T!!! :) » terrics, posted by happyflower on October 5, 2005, at 11:21:35
> Yup, a very quick termination! LOL what a fun way to end therapy! LOL :) My T has a beard so I wonder if it tickles. Never kissed a man with facial hair.That's funny. I've always thought it would be interesting to kiss my therapist because he *doesn't* have any facial hair. I'm so used to my husband's beard I can't remember what a shaved chin feels like...
Posted by happyflower on October 5, 2005, at 13:10:12
In reply to kissing and facial hair » happyflower, posted by Tamar on October 5, 2005, at 12:59:24
Hey, maybe we can husband swap!!!LOL
Posted by happyflower on October 5, 2005, at 18:41:08
In reply to kissing and facial hair » happyflower, posted by Tamar on October 5, 2005, at 12:59:24
I wonder if it tickles other areas as well! LOL hmmmm.....
Posted by Tamar on October 5, 2005, at 18:57:18
In reply to Re: kissing and facial hair, posted by happyflower on October 5, 2005, at 18:41:08
> I wonder if it tickles other areas as well! LOL hmmmm.....
The answer is definitely yes.
And on that note, I have to go to bed. It's my husband's birthday, and I promised him a special present...
Posted by happyflower on October 5, 2005, at 19:00:34
In reply to Re: kissing and facial hair » happyflower, posted by Tamar on October 5, 2005, at 18:57:18
> > I wonder if it tickles other areas as well! LOL hmmmm.....
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> The answer is definitely yes.
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> And on that note, I have to go to bed. It's my husband's birthday, and I promised him a special present...
>
LOL Isn't it a little too early for bed? LOL Have fun, I am glad somebody is! :) I just have my dreams, but they are good especailly since I know facial hair tickles everywhere! LOL
Posted by happyflower on October 5, 2005, at 20:13:29
In reply to Re: kissing and facial hair, posted by happyflower on October 5, 2005, at 19:00:34
Posted by fairywings on October 6, 2005, at 6:47:47
In reply to kissing and facial hair » happyflower, posted by Tamar on October 5, 2005, at 12:59:24
My husband has a mustache, would like to kiss a bare lip sometime.
fw
Posted by fairywings on October 6, 2005, at 6:49:36
In reply to Re: kissing and facial hair » happyflower, posted by Tamar on October 5, 2005, at 18:57:18
> The answer is definitely yes.
>
> And on that note, I have to go to bed. It's my husband's birthday, and I promised him a special present...
>
Oooo, I think it's a little too abrasive for some of the sensitive areas! ; ) Well mustaches anyway.Oh, and have fun with the b'day revelrie!
fw
Posted by Tamar on October 6, 2005, at 16:18:00
In reply to Re: kissing and facial hair, posted by happyflower on October 5, 2005, at 19:00:34
Posted by Tamar on October 6, 2005, at 16:20:43
In reply to Re: kissing and facial hair, posted by fairywings on October 6, 2005, at 6:49:36
> Oooo, I think it's a little too abrasive for some of the sensitive areas! ; ) Well mustaches anyway.Depends on the man. Some have softer facial hair than others ;)
> Oh, and have fun with the b'day revelrie!
Thanks!
Posted by allisonross on October 20, 2005, at 13:42:23
In reply to I kissed my T!!! :), posted by happyflower on October 2, 2005, at 17:20:02
> Just kidding! I just want to talk! I am bored!
Gawd, I LOVE you, ya crazy woman, ya! Actually, I hate to disappoint you (LOL), but I (underline the word....I) am the poster child for crazy, sassy. I tell my therapist i have an evil twin (Francesca) who does and says the crazy stuff! I've been told all of my life i am "crazy, bad, eccentric, etc....:" My T says he has never met anyone like me (no one else has either, LOL!) Gosh, i wish the above was true! Not like I haven't been workin on him for 2 years, LOl, LOL!! I could write tons here, but will try to keep it short (gotta get back to the sex thing, ya know).......Gosh, i am in a lot of trouble....in love with my T for 2 years (I told him, and we've discussed it many times---he asks me if it is helpful....I told him that it is the "elephant in the living room" we can ignore it, but it will always be there. I think he is the most brilliant therapist/man on the planet; so does he...so it all works out splendidly! LOL! I told him (we are so alike, it is unbelievable) that HE is ME in male form........been alone for 5 months now (my sex drive was ALWAYS on KILL); divorced after 31 years of abuse (consider myself an expert in abuse/verbal, and counsel abused women.) Took me 25 years to find the book, which saved my mind (well, what I had of it), and should be required reading for everyone on the planet: The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans....you can read my sordid (yet transcendent) story: www.psychiatricjournal.com...entitled: The Transcendent Child on Overcoming Verbal and Spiritual Abuse (Imagine that...a nutcase like me, published with the Ph.D.'s!!) You can also read my (unbelievable) story of spiritual abuse: www.churchabusepoetrytherapy.com (voted out of a 31-year church membership), with my name up on a big screen, followed by the words: CONDUCT UNBECOMING A CHILD OF GOD (did this to me on my birthday 3 yrs ago). I stood up (literally one one occasion), and fought them (sexist "men") for 18 months, to try and stop the pastor of disaster (LOL) from "counseling" any more women, because 2 of them wanted to commit suicide.....I was called to a meeting of deacons (16 "men") who asked if I was "still having sex with my ex." No boundaries......(An author told me i should have asked if they were still master........))!! Anyway, that is how I journeyed with the angel who is still my therapist..he is also an expert on spiritual abuse......he is the best in the Universe.......Cultured, intelligent, musician, incredible sense of humor (almost as good as mine), sensitive, sensual (woops, who said that!!??), integrity....the list is almost endless! I've written my memoir: Ghost Child to Triumph (from a child with no voice, to someone who speaks up against injustice in the world); have a publisher interested; soon as i become rich and famous, plan to quit the job that makes me lose my will to live!.....Alone for the 1st time in 31 years, but doing well.....they can beat me, but they can't EAT me (hmmmm), that could be....my NEXT wish, LOL.....tolja I was krazy! Now, if I could only tell you the things that has transpired between me and my T........especially.....what happened....LAST week.....Gosh, I wish my subject line was true....i am doing everything (LOL) I can to make it that way (yah, I know all the rules, etc.); told my T I am the strongest woman and have more control than any other human being......geez, almost 3 years of the torture of unrequited love........just call me masochist. Told him I would rather be in pain WITH him, that without him......As I said, we have the BEST relationship; I am not afraid to say just about anything to him; and we discuss anything.........I am always trying to bend/break the boundaries; he is always trying to keep up and keep them!! LOL....hugs to all.......e-mail me: wacalice@aol.com
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