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Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Twinleaf

Posted by Dinah on October 26, 2012, at 16:40:52

In reply to Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Dinah, posted by Twinleaf on October 26, 2012, at 11:46:21

I wouldn't want to discourage anyone's hope, if they find hope a positive thing.

I've never really understood that. Hope, to me, is a very negative thing. Hoping that Bob will eventually decide to moderate hurts me. Radical acceptance that he won't hurts less.

 

Lou's reply-rephlexpolo » Dinah

Posted by Lou Pilder on October 26, 2012, at 16:54:25

In reply to Re: Lou's response-moarheyt » Lou Pilder, posted by Dinah on October 26, 2012, at 16:28:30

> Lou, I don't hate you. I could be wrong. I just saw that people wrote words about your behavior and you appeared to interpret it as evidence that the posters were attacking the foundation of Judaism. I can certainly misunderstand. Did you indeed realize that the words were not about the foundations of JudaiD,

D
When the drafter of a post uses vague descriptions and problematic language, the readers do not have to read their mind to understand what is written. They then go to the context of the post in relation to thewcontext of the entire thread. And what the reader interprets from the post is what it is, not what the author wanted it to mean. Ifthe author wanted it to mean differently, they could have written it for that understanding.
Now after placing the post in the context of the thread to understand it, then you could place it in the context of all the related posts eve in other threads. The fact that she wanted me to lie previously to circumvent a rule here shows what it shows and adds to the meaning of her post to me. The fact that Mr Hsiung allows antisemitic statements to tand plays a part in the meaning also. The use of {Sadly} speaks vbolumes. ANd the word is connected to what I believe which throughout the entrire forum is how oe can overcome addiction and depression from a Jewish perspective. The fact that there are years of outstanding requests from me to Mr Hsiung here adds to the meaning. Fot the outstanding requests deal with antisemitic statements being allowed to stand.
In this one, not only is Judaism insulted, but Islam and other faiths also and people here could think hat it is supportive because it stands wuthout sanction and support takes preceence. SO peole ere could post all they want of antisemitic slurs and such for it is established that antisemitic statements are supportive by the convention of them being alowed to stand for unsupportive statment are ot allowed to stand because one match could start a forest fire. And look at the fire here now.
Here is a link that starts this off and it has never been sanctioned and my request are still outstanding so the fire of hate is still burning.
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20041109/msgs/428781.html
Then the insult to Judaism and Islam and other faiths as in the 2end list #5 as the "worst"
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faith/20040729/msgs/378930.html
Now as long as the fire of hate is burning here, there will be posts that defame Judaism and me as a Jew. There could be many variations of how to do this, but it really doesn't matter to me. For if the word B*llsh*t is directed to me, it says that my faith is B*llsh*t for she connects the two with what I *believe* and what I have been writing here. Sadly that I believe what I write? That could nmean that what Mr Hsiung is allowed to stand "reflects the posting policies here." andthat it is sad that I do not adopt his thinking.
Lou

 

Re: Lou's reply-rephlexpolo » Lou Pilder

Posted by Dinah on October 26, 2012, at 16:59:52

In reply to Lou's reply-rephlexpolo » Dinah, posted by Lou Pilder on October 26, 2012, at 16:54:25

No, it doesn't.

But nothing I say will convince you of that, so why bother.

Which is what I meant to begin with. You see that as hate from me. At most I see it as frustration and anger. But you'll believe what you want.

 

Lou's reply-ahntigewdegyizm » Dinah

Posted by Lou Pilder on October 26, 2012, at 17:28:39

In reply to Re: Lou's response-moarheyt » Lou Pilder, posted by Dinah on October 26, 2012, at 16:28:30

> Lou, I don't hate you. I could be wrong. I just saw that people wrote words about your behavior and you appeared to interpret it as evidence that the posters were attacking the foundation of Judaism. I can certainly misunderstand. Did you indeed realize that the words were not about the foundations of Judaism?

D,
You wrote the above. Now let us look at the post in question to see what is what is.
The first statement is by me.

Lou
...and if my perspective supressed that would have saved their child's life, then whose blood would te dead child's be upon?...

Now her response to me
gg
I call it b*llsh*t. So again, b*llsh*t. But I believe that you believe what you write. Sadly

Now what is what it is.
In my statement here, notice that states:
...if {my perspective supressed...
YOu see, her reply to me concerns {my perspective}. And she calls it B*llsh*t.
Now my perspective is from the Jewish perspective that Mr Hsiung has posted to me a prohibition that prevents me from posting it. This is the crux of the post as what is plainly visible.
Then she states that she believe that I believe my perspective , which is from a Jewish perspective. {Sadly}.
Now you do not need a mastermind to know what is said by her to be {b*llsh*t}.
Now Mr Hsiung allows hat to be directed to me and people can think that reflects the posting policy here. That could lead others to gang up on me and bully me and I could be victim of antisemitic violence. My perspective b*llsh*t? In a mental -health forum? And that is not hatered directed toward Judaism?
Lou
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20120228/msgs/1029564.html

 

Re: Lou's reply-ahntigewdegyizm » Lou Pilder

Posted by Dinah on October 26, 2012, at 17:36:53

In reply to Lou's reply-ahntigewdegyizm » Dinah, posted by Lou Pilder on October 26, 2012, at 17:28:39

The poster herself said that her post was about your behavior, not your religion.

She was doubting your motivations. She was saying that if that was your motivation, you could reach a wider target elsewhere. You then explained that you had a mission to Babble specifically, and that probably would have ended that portion of the discussion right there with greater understanding had you not accused her of things she didn't mean. I certainly wasn't aware that the Rider's charge to you was specifically related to Babble. I doubt she was either. I appreciated the clarification. I myself couldn't figure out why you weren't on CNN.com with it's greater audience.

Or at least that's my recollection.

 

Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Dinah

Posted by Twinleaf on October 26, 2012, at 17:46:06

In reply to Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Twinleaf, posted by Dinah on October 26, 2012, at 16:40:52

We really do differ on this, although I had better be the first to admit that having hope means being disappointed! When I was really depressed, I didn't have any hope at all about the future. Now that that is (mostly) behind me, I find I just naturally have hopes and wishes about how things will go; it just seems like part of focussing one's efforts. Without little hopes of various sorts, I thnk it would be hard to concentrate my efforts towards a goal.

I'm with you on not liking how the board is functioning - not one bit.

 

Re: Lou's reply-rephlexpolo

Posted by schleprock on October 26, 2012, at 17:48:34

In reply to Lou's reply-rephlexpolo » Dinah, posted by Lou Pilder on October 26, 2012, at 16:54:25

> > Lou, I don't hate you. I could be wrong. I just saw that people wrote words about your behavior and you appeared to interpret it as evidence that the posters were attacking the foundation of Judaism. I can certainly misunderstand. Did you indeed realize that the words were not about the foundations of JudaiD,
>
> D
> When the drafter of a post uses vague descriptions and problematic language, the readers do not have to read their mind to understand what is written. They then go to the context of the post in relation to thewcontext of the entire thread. And what the reader interprets from the post is what it is, not what the author wanted it to mean. Ifthe author wanted it to mean differently, they could have written it for that understanding.
> Now after placing the post in the context of the thread to understand it, then you could place it in the context of all the related posts eve in other threads. The fact that she wanted me to lie previously to circumvent a rule here shows what it shows and adds to the meaning of her post to me. The fact that Mr Hsiung allows antisemitic statements to tand plays a part in the meaning also. The use of {Sadly} speaks vbolumes. ANd the word is connected to what I believe which throughout the entrire forum is how oe can overcome addiction and depression from a Jewish perspective. The fact that there are years of outstanding requests from me to Mr Hsiung here adds to the meaning. Fot the outstanding requests deal with antisemitic statements being allowed to stand.
> In this one, not only is Judaism insulted, but Islam and other faiths also and people here could think hat it is supportive because it stands wuthout sanction and support takes preceence. SO peole ere could post all they want of antisemitic slurs and such for it is established that antisemitic statements are supportive by the convention of them being alowed to stand for unsupportive statment are ot allowed to stand because one match could start a forest fire. And look at the fire here now.
> Here is a link that starts this off and it has never been sanctioned and my request are still outstanding so the fire of hate is still burning.
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20041109/msgs/428781.html
> Then the insult to Judaism and Islam and other faiths as in the 2end list #5 as the "worst"
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faith/20040729/msgs/378930.html
> Now as long as the fire of hate is burning here, there will be posts that defame Judaism and me as a Jew. There could be many variations of how to do this, but it really doesn't matter to me. For if the word B*llsh*t is directed to me, it says that my faith is B*llsh*t for she connects the two with what I *believe* and what I have been writing here. Sadly that I believe what I write? That could nmean that what Mr Hsiung is allowed to stand "reflects the posting policies here." andthat it is sad that I do not adopt his thinking.
> Lou

So you've really been waiting almost 8 years for a reply from this "Mr Hsiung"? And your anger has actually been burning for almost 8 years because you have yet to receive a response? I find that incredible.

Perhaps there's a deputy moderator around here, someone >>>>"temporarily"<<< in charge who could finally resolve this outstanding issue for you.

 

Lou's reply-phyrofheyt » schleprock

Posted by Lou Pilder on October 26, 2012, at 18:03:19

In reply to Re: Lou's reply-rephlexpolo, posted by schleprock on October 26, 2012, at 17:48:34

> > > Lou, I don't hate you. I could be wrong. I just saw that people wrote words about your behavior and you appeared to interpret it as evidence that the posters were attacking the foundation of Judaism. I can certainly misunderstand. Did you indeed realize that the words were not about the foundations of JudaiD,
> >
> > D
> > When the drafter of a post uses vague descriptions and problematic language, the readers do not have to read their mind to understand what is written. They then go to the context of the post in relation to thewcontext of the entire thread. And what the reader interprets from the post is what it is, not what the author wanted it to mean. Ifthe author wanted it to mean differently, they could have written it for that understanding.
> > Now after placing the post in the context of the thread to understand it, then you could place it in the context of all the related posts eve in other threads. The fact that she wanted me to lie previously to circumvent a rule here shows what it shows and adds to the meaning of her post to me. The fact that Mr Hsiung allows antisemitic statements to tand plays a part in the meaning also. The use of {Sadly} speaks vbolumes. ANd the word is connected to what I believe which throughout the entrire forum is how oe can overcome addiction and depression from a Jewish perspective. The fact that there are years of outstanding requests from me to Mr Hsiung here adds to the meaning. Fot the outstanding requests deal with antisemitic statements being allowed to stand.
> > In this one, not only is Judaism insulted, but Islam and other faiths also and people here could think hat it is supportive because it stands wuthout sanction and support takes preceence. SO peole ere could post all they want of antisemitic slurs and such for it is established that antisemitic statements are supportive by the convention of them being alowed to stand for unsupportive statment are ot allowed to stand because one match could start a forest fire. And look at the fire here now.
> > Here is a link that starts this off and it has never been sanctioned and my request are still outstanding so the fire of hate is still burning.
> > http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20041109/msgs/428781.html
> > Then the insult to Judaism and Islam and other faiths as in the 2end list #5 as the "worst"
> > http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faith/20040729/msgs/378930.html
> > Now as long as the fire of hate is burning here, there will be posts that defame Judaism and me as a Jew. There could be many variations of how to do this, but it really doesn't matter to me. For if the word B*llsh*t is directed to me, it says that my faith is B*llsh*t for she connects the two with what I *believe* and what I have been writing here. Sadly that I believe what I write? That could nmean that what Mr Hsiung is allowed to stand "reflects the posting policies here." andthat it is sad that I do not adopt his thinking.
> > Lou
>
> So you've really been waiting almost 8 years for a reply from this "Mr Hsiung"? And your anger has actually been burning for almost 8 years because you have yet to receive a response? I find that incredible.
>
> Perhaps there's a deputy moderator around here, someone >>>>"temporarily"<<< in charge who could finally resolve this outstanding issue for you.

schleprock,
The fire of hate is in the posts that the links here show concerning hatred to the Jews, not my anger for them to be allowed to stand. Mr Hsiung states that he does not wait to sanction a post that could start a forest fire. But it is 8 years and I have aske him to appoint a special moderator in his behalf to post what could show that the forum's administration considers the antisemitic statems uncivil. I have asked for other remedies also.
The posts are just a sample of posts thatdefame he Jews that are allowed to stand here. The posts unsanctioned states that they are supportive a per Mr Hsiung's TOS here as that support takes precedence. That means there is no rationale acceptable to allow an antisemitic statement to stand. So since they do stand, people could think that hatred toward the Jews is supportive here.
This is a forum of hate as long as Mr Hsiung allows those kinds of statements to stand. And it is a greater shame that members in mass to this day have not posted in the threads where those posts appear
Lou

 

Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Twinleaf

Posted by Dinah on October 26, 2012, at 18:03:33

In reply to Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Dinah, posted by Twinleaf on October 26, 2012, at 17:46:06

It's not that I don't have hope in the future. It's that I try not to have hope in certain situations or people to behave any differently than they have shown themselves to behave.

My hopes might be based more on having a community somewhere that I might be a part of, or that Babble will remain as nice an unmoderated board as an unmoderated board can be. My hopes for the future might involve reminding myself that I can post here as long as I like, but if I stop liking it, I can stop posting. It might even be that thank heavens this didn't happen back when I was in more turmoil in therapy or struggling more over medications. It might just be to remind myself that while I'm totally impotent at Babble, and unable to help people in any real way, I'm not impotently stuck at Babble. Unlike middle school, I can leave.

I rarely have hopes of Dr. Bob. If you see me getting really upset about Babble, it likely means I had a few moments of hope in its founder.

 

Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Dinah

Posted by Twinleaf on October 26, 2012, at 18:08:02

In reply to Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Twinleaf, posted by Dinah on October 26, 2012, at 18:03:33

We actually have many of the same hopes. Most of mine are fairly modest and cautious.

 

Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Dinah

Posted by Phil on October 26, 2012, at 18:53:16

In reply to Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Twinleaf, posted by Dinah on October 26, 2012, at 18:03:33

I like Lou but when one poster out of say 100, takes 95% of the moderators time, well, something is wrong.
I don't know Lou's DX but this excessive religiosity can be a symptom of serious mental illness. If that's true then we are witnessing an individual, for a decade, live in a world of pain and constantly being misunderstood.
Lou will be here long after I'm gone but I just feel I'm dealing with someone in turmoil and there's nothing anyone can do.
I would hate to see anyone trapped in a world that separated them from people that would do anything to help.
Tomorrow it will start all over again and instead of getting help, it just seems to me that Lou has to fight the battle that isn't originating here but possibly is fed and nourished by his own disease. I find that heartbreaking. (I'm not playing dr, just saying something that originates in my heart.) More than anything, God wants us to be happy. life is short.)

 

Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » SLS

Posted by phidippus on October 26, 2012, at 19:34:59

In reply to Let us not ridicule the person., posted by SLS on October 26, 2012, at 0:03:05

Who the hell is Lou Pilder?

Eric

 

Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Phil

Posted by Phillipa on October 26, 2012, at 20:44:40

In reply to Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Dinah, posted by Phil on October 26, 2012, at 18:53:16

Phil any ideas how we can get Lou help? Phillipa

 

Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » phidippus

Posted by schleprock on October 26, 2012, at 22:55:45

In reply to Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » SLS, posted by phidippus on October 26, 2012, at 19:34:59

> Who the hell is Lou Pilder?
>
> Eric

Lou Pilder = "Red Pill"

 

Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Phillipa

Posted by Phil on October 26, 2012, at 23:57:30

In reply to Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Phil, posted by Phillipa on October 26, 2012, at 20:44:40

> Phil any ideas how we can get Lou help? Phillipa

Nope.

 

Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Phil

Posted by gardenergirl on October 27, 2012, at 2:16:15

In reply to Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Dinah, posted by Phil on October 26, 2012, at 18:53:16

> I like Lou but when one poster out of say 100, takes 95% of the moderators time, well, something is wrong.

Ding ding ding ding! Phil FTW!

My own personal experience in dealing with Lou's notifications and personal communications of requests for administrative actions is that is was constant escalation once he got a "foot in the door" of sorts. Whether I acted on something at his request or on my own based on my independent reaction to something, it almost always resulted in multiple additional requests for action on past issues or on issues I'd declined to address on way or another. And as a volunteer here, I had the right to decline for any reason. Many times I declined because I didn't feel I had an adequate understanding or context about what Lou thought was uncivil to make a thoughtful decision. My recollection, which is not 100% accurate, I'm sure, is that this caution on my part was never satisfactory. And god forbid I actually disagreed with his interpretation. That was usually met with multiple, and I mean many multiple replies with increasing justifications and demands. After a number of these interactions, based on the language used, which at times took on a legalistic tone, I began to believe that this escalation could go as high as some kind of lawsuit. No volunteer could be expected to put up with that unsupported.

So it's not just the time it takes to address all of Lou's notifications, though that itself is daunting.

And as I sit here feeling the need to defend myself again, I realize that I'm reacting to that same dance. And I don't have to. And I know it's not helping Lou. Just wanted to add some context to the crap stream that the "man behind the curtain" may be experiencing.

gg

 

Re: Let us not ridicule the person.

Posted by SLS on October 27, 2012, at 7:09:02

In reply to Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Phil, posted by gardenergirl on October 27, 2012, at 2:16:15

> > I like Lou but when one poster out of say 100, takes 95% of the moderators time, well, something is wrong.

> My own personal experience in dealing with Lou's notifications and personal communications of requests for administrative actions is that is was constant escalation once he got a "foot in the door" of sorts.

I sometimes wonder in what ways Dr. Bob might be influenced to no longer block people from posting. Perhaps there is a man behind the curtain to the man behind the curtain.

I'm just musing. Obviously, something changed the behavior of the moderator. I am interested to know what that was.


- Scott

 

Lou's response-kristlnahc » SLS

Posted by Lou Pilder on October 27, 2012, at 9:11:41

In reply to Re: Let us not ridicule the person., posted by SLS on October 27, 2012, at 7:09:02

> > > I like Lou but when one poster out of say 100, takes 95% of the moderators time, well, something is wrong.
>
> > My own personal experience in dealing with Lou's notifications and personal communications of requests for administrative actions is that is was constant escalation once he got a "foot in the door" of sorts.
>
> I sometimes wonder in what ways Dr. Bob might be influenced to no longer block people from posting. Perhaps there is a man behind the curtain to the man behind the curtain.
>
> I'm just musing. Obviously, something changed the behavior of the moderator. I am interested to know what that was.
>
>
> - Scott

Scott,
You wrote the above.
Now it is plainly visible to me what is goin' on here. Others may or may not see it. In order to understand what is plainly visible to me there could be a better understnding of how Mr Hsiung and his deputies can minipulate the member's thinking here by controlling the content and establishing what is supportive. This does not need a mastermind to do, for there are historical parallels that are available to those that read philosophical writings from Jean Jacques Rouseau, Nietsche, Voltair, Mussolini and his followers that added hatred toward the Jews as part of fascism from 1922.
Now one of the tactics to minipulate the thinking of members of a community is to repress the speech of those that see through the indoctrination and establishing attempted by the leader and his constintuency. And the historical record shows how those aginst the indoctrination were allowed to be targets of hate to be harmed and killed by the ones that went along with the indoctrination and establishment. This allowing , as you understand, happened in Kristallnacht and pogroms and he crusades and the Spainish inquesition and goes on today in communities that allow antisemitic statements or anti-Islamic statements or rascism to stand.
I am the opposition to Mr Hsiung and his deputies and other members that support Mr Hsiung's allowing antisemitic and anti-Islamic and other anti statments to stand. It is obvious that Mr Hsiung , who calls me the Prince of Death, which is a perversion of The Prince of Peace, that he wants to (redacted by respondent)me so that (redcted by respondent). So by him and his deputies allowing hate to be posted about me here and lies to be posted about me here, and defamation and slander and statements that then the result could be great emotional/psychological harm done to me here by him allowing the open hatred to be posted here that could arouse antisemitic feelings toward me here, and could then result in antisemitic violence being perpetrated toward me to ruin me so that I can not oppose the hate being promulgated here against Jews and me as a Jew.
Now here is a post that I would like for you to examine. Notice that my requests to Mr Hsiung are outstanding. And notice that members have not in mass posted from their perspective concerning the hatred toward Jews and others in the post being allowed to stand. Mr Hsiung admits that without sanctioning a post that harm could happen to the people that the post is directed to and are the subjects of the content. In the post in the following link, the Jews and anyone else that does not accept Jesus as Lord , are the subject persons and the post states that since those that did not convert to Chrisiandom, miss out on Eternal Life and forgivenesss. That post insults Judaism, Islam and other faiths. It dehumanizes Jews and Islamic people and the ohers. It is a crime againbst humanity to be allowed to stand in a mental health forum in particular. But Mr Hsiung is a psychiatrist and knows what can or can not cause emotional harm. And to this day, the fire of hate that Mr Hsiung states he will not wait to sanction because one match could cause a forest fire, is still burning. Burning against the Jews, Burning against Islamic people, burning against humanity itself. It is a crime against humanity and it is being allowed to flame the forest and stoke the furnace of hate.
And as long as the members here allow it to burn, the harm that Mr Hsiung says that could happen, will happen, as the spread of hate goes out to schools, universities, and other communities.
You can repress my speech here, you can post hate about me and slander me and ridicule me an taunt me and bully me and accuse me of whatever you want, but as the Sun comes out of the East and goes to the West, so shall I conquer the hate here single-handedly if I have to.
Here is the link tha states that the Jewish children murdered by antisemites can not have Eternal Life or forgiveness from God, and that the murderers of those Jewish children do have forgiveness and Eternal Life if they accepted Jesus as Lord and Savior. And this is a mental health forum for support. Support for what?
Lou
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20120228/msgs/1017615.html

 

Lou's response-ahntgdzm » Phil

Posted by Lou Pilder on October 27, 2012, at 10:16:06

In reply to Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Dinah, posted by Phil on October 26, 2012, at 18:53:16

> I like Lou but when one poster out of say 100, takes 95% of the moderators time, well, something is wrong.
> I don't know Lou's DX but this excessive religiosity can be a symptom of serious mental illness. If that's true then we are witnessing an individual, for a decade, live in a world of pain and constantly being misunderstood.
> Lou will be here long after I'm gone but I just feel I'm dealing with someone in turmoil and there's nothing anyone can do.
> I would hate to see anyone trapped in a world that separated them from people that would do anything to help.
> Tomorrow it will start all over again and instead of getting help, it just seems to me that Lou has to fight the battle that isn't originating here but possibly is fed and nourished by his own disease. I find that heartbreaking. (I'm not playing dr, just saying something that originates in my heart.) More than anything, God wants us to be happy. life is short.)

Phil,
Please do not post statements that could arouse ill-will toward me here and allude to the lie that a Jew could have serious mental illness because he is religious. What I am attempting to do here is bring the good news that could free the captives of depression and addiction. This does contain the foudation of Judaism which Mr Hsiung has posted to me a prohibition that prevents me from posting such. It is a lie that my perspective to do so constitute excesssive religiosity. What you have posted could arouse hatred toward me, and hatred toward me aa a Jew.
Your "Dr Bob" allows you to do this to me here knowing that these type of statements contradict his own TOS here to be sensitive to the feelings of others. Doing so becuase he allows this to continue, and has not responded to my notifications to him, does not annul the fact that harm could come to me from what you have posted about me and others could post more of the same about me here. If that is what this community considers to be supportive, then harming others emotionally and psychologically is supportive here.
What I want to post here but am prohibited from doing, could lead people to be free from depression and addiction and have life and life more abundantly. That is supportive in any mental health community and it is a lie that it could be a symptom of serious mental illnesss. Please do not post lies about the Jews that want to help people be healed here and say the lie that he has a disease that nourishes his attempts for people to be healed of depression and addiction, for it is against the Jewish commitment to humanity, which is anti-Judaism.
Lou

 

Lou's response-phalzliet » gardenergirl

Posted by Lou Pilder on October 27, 2012, at 11:36:09

In reply to Re: Let us not ridicule the person. » Phil, posted by gardenergirl on October 27, 2012, at 2:16:15

> > I like Lou but when one poster out of say 100, takes 95% of the moderators time, well, something is wrong.
>
> Ding ding ding ding! Phil FTW!
>
> My own personal experience in dealing with Lou's notifications and personal communications of requests for administrative actions is that is was constant escalation once he got a "foot in the door" of sorts. Whether I acted on something at his request or on my own based on my independent reaction to something, it almost always resulted in multiple additional requests for action on past issues or on issues I'd declined to address on way or another. And as a volunteer here, I had the right to decline for any reason. Many times I declined because I didn't feel I had an adequate understanding or context about what Lou thought was uncivil to make a thoughtful decision. My recollection, which is not 100% accurate, I'm sure, is that this caution on my part was never satisfactory. And god forbid I actually disagreed with his interpretation. That was usually met with multiple, and I mean many multiple replies with increasing justifications and demands. After a number of these interactions, based on the language used, which at times took on a legalistic tone, I began to believe that this escalation could go as high as some kind of lawsuit. No volunteer could be expected to put up with that unsupported.
>
> So it's not just the time it takes to address all of Lou's notifications, though that itself is daunting.
>
> And as I sit here feeling the need to defend myself again, I realize that I'm reacting to that same dance. And I don't have to. And I know it's not helping Lou. Just wanted to add some context to the crap stream that the "man behind the curtain" may be experiencing.
>
> gg
>

gg,
Please do not post what could constitute defamtion toward me by you. There is a doctrin called {false light} that you are putting me in here with your posting about me as putting me in a false light. I followed the administraive policies in all the communications with you and the other deputies and Mr Hsiung. You admit that you did not accomodate my requests to you as it being {your right to decline}.
You may or may not have had that right. For just that Mr Hsiung stated that you could decline, that does not annul the fact that declining to respond could have the potential to leave statements that could arouse antisemitic feelings and could cause harm to a Jew or me as a Jew.
Now there is a prohibition to me here by Mr Hsiung that I can not post a link to these posts in question. This denys me any right for members here to hear my side of what you posted about me that I think puts me in a {false light}. This could arouse ill-will toward me here and advance the allowing of the other posts that could arouse anti-Semitic feelings and the lies about me that could do harm. Your "Dr Bob" allows you to post what is confrontational even though his own rules prohibit such.
Lou

 

Re: Lou's response-ahntgdzm

Posted by Willful on October 27, 2012, at 11:37:01

In reply to Lou's response-ahntgdzm » Phil, posted by Lou Pilder on October 27, 2012, at 10:16:06

Phil was saying not that Lou's mental illness is a result of his being religious, but that his religiousity was a result of his mental illness.

He wasn't speaking of Jews, but of Lou. Lou is not 'Jews", and in many respects, he is not pure and simple a Jew. Lou is Lou. When I say that Lou is mentally ill-- if I say it-- I don't say that a Jew is mentally ill. His being Jewish has nothing to do with it. Even if his illness relates to religiosity, curiously, it has nothing to do with his being Jewish

This is true because his Jewishness is caught up by this illness-- it is not causal or even crucial to the illness. It may make the illness more pernicious-- and more inflammatory-- I doubt we would be so disturbed if Lou were saying that postings on the board made him check his stove 100 times before he left the house. So his saying that there are nameless posts, or that any criticism of him is anti-semitic and tends to whatever the most extreme results of anti-semiticism could be, does arouse a lot of disruption. But the Jewish aspect is far from the root cause. One might say it is the rhetorical or symbolic container for his illness, but as such, is divorced from Jewishness itself.

If I won't eat, it's not because I'm Jewish; it's because I have problems that have nothing to do with Jewishness. If I"m obsessed by the persecution of Jews in the early 1900's, it has nothing to do with my Jewishness per se-- it simply is an outgrowth of some obsessivenss that has selected Jewishness as it object. (It may locate you in relation to the persecution-- as a victim of it-- but amounts to that.) (I add, just for the record, that I am Jewish.)

Being Jewish doesn't mean that everything about you is defined by your Jewishness. Many aspects of your self are simply human, and shared with every other human on the planet-- in one variety or aspect or another. And your being Jewish is in some sense incidental to your general humanity.

So let's dispense once and for all with any pretense that Jewishness or anti-semiticism is more than peripherally involved in anything we're saying about Lou, or that Lou really cares about. It's just a vehicle for talking about what Lou cares about, a very effective vehicle, that gets a lot of attention.

Lou is more interested in persecution than he is in Jewishness. I have always assumed that --anyway. We all know Lou suffers from some very serious mental illness-- at least I have always assumed that we all know that-- except for newcomers on the board who are assaulted by Lou and then don't know why or what to think.

We shouldn't kid ourselves about this. What we have here is someone who has a sense of persecution, and who is in full bloom of spreading this poison through this board, because he is unable to contain it himself. And his claims about Jewishness are a way at best of expressing the pressing sense of this poison, and of making us all (and himself) drink a whole lot of it.

I don't know what can be done about Lou, because he simply is using us as instruments of his own craziness. His persecution and rescue phantasies have nothing to do with any of us or what we're doing-- yet they waylay us, drive newcomers from the board, and sow a lot of confusion and pain. Why do we (why does Bob) let this happen?

Is it helping (or supporting) Lou to let him carry out- and to reexperience this onslaught?

I surely don't see the kindness in letting him do this here to us and to himself. Apparently Bob thought that was kinder-- to Lou, and not detrimental enough to the community. At this point, I think the ratios have turned. But it remains, I guess, for Bob to be convinced--since he has the power to intervene, as he sees fit.

 

Lou's response-moarheyt » Willful

Posted by Lou Pilder on October 27, 2012, at 13:53:08

In reply to Re: Lou's response-ahntgdzm, posted by Willful on October 27, 2012, at 11:37:01

> Phil was saying not that Lou's mental illness is a result of his being religious, but that his religiousity was a result of his mental illness.
>
> He wasn't speaking of Jews, but of Lou. Lou is not 'Jews", and in many respects, he is not pure and simple a Jew. Lou is Lou. When I say that Lou is mentally ill-- if I say it-- I don't say that a Jew is mentally ill. His being Jewish has nothing to do with it. Even if his illness relates to religiosity, curiously, it has nothing to do with his being Jewish
>
> This is true because his Jewishness is caught up by this illness-- it is not causal or even crucial to the illness. It may make the illness more pernicious-- and more inflammatory-- I doubt we would be so disturbed if Lou were saying that postings on the board made him check his stove 100 times before he left the house. So his saying that there are nameless posts, or that any criticism of him is anti-semitic and tends to whatever the most extreme results of anti-semiticism could be, does arouse a lot of disruption. But the Jewish aspect is far from the root cause. One might say it is the rhetorical or symbolic container for his illness, but as such, is divorced from Jewishness itself.
>
> If I won't eat, it's not because I'm Jewish; it's because I have problems that have nothing to do with Jewishness. If I"m obsessed by the persecution of Jews in the early 1900's, it has nothing to do with my Jewishness per se-- it simply is an outgrowth of some obsessivenss that has selected Jewishness as it object. (It may locate you in relation to the persecution-- as a victim of it-- but amounts to that.) (I add, just for the record, that I am Jewish.)
>
> Being Jewish doesn't mean that everything about you is defined by your Jewishness. Many aspects of your self are simply human, and shared with every other human on the planet-- in one variety or aspect or another. And your being Jewish is in some sense incidental to your general humanity.
>
> So let's dispense once and for all with any pretense that Jewishness or anti-semiticism is more than peripherally involved in anything we're saying about Lou, or that Lou really cares about. It's just a vehicle for talking about what Lou cares about, a very effective vehicle, that gets a lot of attention.
>
> Lou is more interested in persecution than he is in Jewishness. I have always assumed that --anyway. We all know Lou suffers from some very serious mental illness-- at least I have always assumed that we all know that-- except for newcomers on the board who are assaulted by Lou and then don't know why or what to think.
>
> We shouldn't kid ourselves about this. What we have here is someone who has a sense of persecution, and who is in full bloom of spreading this poison through this board, because he is unable to contain it himself. And his claims about Jewishness are a way at best of expressing the pressing sense of this poison, and of making us all (and himself) drink a whole lot of it.
>
> I don't know what can be done about Lou, because he simply is using us as instruments of his own craziness. His persecution and rescue phantasies have nothing to do with any of us or what we're doing-- yet they waylay us, drive newcomers from the board, and sow a lot of confusion and pain. Why do we (why does Bob) let this happen?
>
> Is it helping (or supporting) Lou to let him carry out- and to reexperience this onslaught?
>
> I surely don't see the kindness in letting him do this here to us and to himself. Apparently Bob thought that was kinder-- to Lou, and not detrimental enough to the community. At this point, I think the ratios have turned. But it remains, I guess, for Bob to be convinced--since he has the power to intervene, as he sees fit.
>

W,
Please do not post slanderous statements here about me. Your saying here that I have a mental illness is defamatory and that you say that my religiosness is a result of such is debasing Judaism.The term, mental illness, is a vague term that can be defamatory. Some think that all humans are mentally ill and others to the other extreme where a person commits mass-murder is mentally ill. You did not specify what your concept here is of mentally ill, except that my religiousness of Judaism is a result of what you purport as me being mentally ill. That you claasify me as mentally ill, and by what authority do you use, if any, to classify me or anyone else as mentally ill, please do not classify me at all. It is a lie that my religiousness is a result of "mental illness".
Your "Dr Bob" allows you to post here statements that are a disregard for my humanity and my faith by you claiming a lie that can cause me harm. But being allowed by him for you to post about me here does not ever ligitamize hateful statements toward me. If you think that calling someone here mentally ill and that their religiousness is a result of "mental illness" is supportive, then hate is supportive here.
Lou

 

Lou's response-suppressfoundationofJudaism

Posted by Lou Pilder on October 27, 2012, at 14:47:20

In reply to Lou's response-moarheyt » Willful, posted by Lou Pilder on October 27, 2012, at 13:53:08

> > Phil was saying not that Lou's mental illness is a result of his being religious, but that his religiousity was a result of his mental illness.
> >
> > He wasn't speaking of Jews, but of Lou. Lou is not 'Jews", and in many respects, he is not pure and simple a Jew. Lou is Lou. When I say that Lou is mentally ill-- if I say it-- I don't say that a Jew is mentally ill. His being Jewish has nothing to do with it. Even if his illness relates to religiosity, curiously, it has nothing to do with his being Jewish
> >
> > This is true because his Jewishness is caught up by this illness-- it is not causal or even crucial to the illness. It may make the illness more pernicious-- and more inflammatory-- I doubt we would be so disturbed if Lou were saying that postings on the board made him check his stove 100 times before he left the house. So his saying that there are nameless posts, or that any criticism of him is anti-semitic and tends to whatever the most extreme results of anti-semiticism could be, does arouse a lot of disruption. But the Jewish aspect is far from the root cause. One might say it is the rhetorical or symbolic container for his illness, but as such, is divorced from Jewishness itself.
> >
> > If I won't eat, it's not because I'm Jewish; it's because I have problems that have nothing to do with Jewishness. If I"m obsessed by the persecution of Jews in the early 1900's, it has nothing to do with my Jewishness per se-- it simply is an outgrowth of some obsessivenss that has selected Jewishness as it object. (It may locate you in relation to the persecution-- as a victim of it-- but amounts to that.) (I add, just for the record, that I am Jewish.)
> >
> > Being Jewish doesn't mean that everything about you is defined by your Jewishness. Many aspects of your self are simply human, and shared with every other human on the planet-- in one variety or aspect or another. And your being Jewish is in some sense incidental to your general humanity.
> >
> > So let's dispense once and for all with any pretense that Jewishness or anti-semiticism is more than peripherally involved in anything we're saying about Lou, or that Lou really cares about. It's just a vehicle for talking about what Lou cares about, a very effective vehicle, that gets a lot of attention.
> >
> > Lou is more interested in persecution than he is in Jewishness. I have always assumed that --anyway. We all know Lou suffers from some very serious mental illness-- at least I have always assumed that we all know that-- except for newcomers on the board who are assaulted by Lou and then don't know why or what to think.
> >
> > We shouldn't kid ourselves about this. What we have here is someone who has a sense of persecution, and who is in full bloom of spreading this poison through this board, because he is unable to contain it himself. And his claims about Jewishness are a way at best of expressing the pressing sense of this poison, and of making us all (and himself) drink a whole lot of it.
> >
> > I don't know what can be done about Lou, because he simply is using us as instruments of his own craziness. His persecution and rescue phantasies have nothing to do with any of us or what we're doing-- yet they waylay us, drive newcomers from the board, and sow a lot of confusion and pain. Why do we (why does Bob) let this happen?
> >
> > Is it helping (or supporting) Lou to let him carry out- and to reexperience this onslaught?
> >
> > I surely don't see the kindness in letting him do this here to us and to himself. Apparently Bob thought that was kinder-- to Lou, and not detrimental enough to the community. At this point, I think the ratios have turned. But it remains, I guess, for Bob to be convinced--since he has the power to intervene, as he sees fit.
> >
>
> W,
> Please do not post slanderous statements here about me. Your saying here that I have a mental illness is defamatory and that you say that my religiosness is a result of such is debasing Judaism.The term, mental illness, is a vague term that can be defamatory. Some think that all humans are mentally ill and others to the other extreme where a person commits mass-murder is mentally ill. You did not specify what your concept here is of mentally ill, except that my religiousness of Judaism is a result of what you purport as me being mentally ill. That you claasify me as mentally ill, and by what authority do you use, if any, to classify me or anyone else as mentally ill, please do not classify me at all. It is a lie that my religiousness is a result of "mental illness".
> Your "Dr Bob" allows you to post here statements that are a disregard for my humanity and my faith by you claiming a lie that can cause me harm. But being allowed by him for you to post about me here does not ever ligitamize hateful statements toward me. If you think that calling someone here mentally ill and that their religiousness is a result of "mental illness" is supportive, then hate is supportive here.
> Lou

W,
You wrote that I have "rescue phantasies".
Your claim that my attempts to lead people to be free from depression and addiction is a thing called, "rescue phantasies", is a reckless disregard for the truth. This is all becuase this forum is for support and education. Granted, Mr Hsiung has posted prohibitions to me here that prevent me from posting from a Jewish perspective in regards to the foundation of Judaism that has been revealed to me that could open a whole new life to those enslaved by depresssion and addiction. But is not this is what the forum's goals are? And people here are denied my perspective, which is a Jewish perspective, so that knowing what I could tell them is suppressed by Mr Hsiung here. The supresssion of speech can lead to an indoctrination. And then an indoctrination can lead to an establishment of hatred towad Jews here because the Jewish perspective is made out here by Mr Hsiung to be unsupportive by the nature that it is sanctioned as uncivil by him and there is a prohibition to me here to prevent me from posting it.
Yet today, members can post the Chrstiandom perspective that says that people who reject Jesus can not have Eternal Life or forgiveness. This policy here by Mr Hsiung defames Jews and others. It is the foundation of hatred toward Jews and Islamic people and other faiths. It is insulting the very goals of this forum. It is direspectfull to humanity itself. And you say that you don't know what can be done about me? Is it that you want to stop me from freeing the captives from addiction and depression or stop me from stopping "Dr Bob" from allowing antisemitic statements to stand here? Or is it that you want to stop me from helping people to overcome and be freed from being scared of that they will get a life-ruining condition or death from mind-altering drugs that kill over 3500 people each month? If you think that the supression of the foundation of Judaism is supportive, and the allowing of the foundation of Christiandom that says that those that reject Jesus can not have Eternl Life or forgiveness from God, which is the foundation of hatred toward the Jews,then hatred toward the Jews is supportive here.
Lou

 

Mental illness? » Lou Pilder

Posted by SLS on October 27, 2012, at 15:56:38

In reply to Lou's response-moarheyt » Willful, posted by Lou Pilder on October 27, 2012, at 13:53:08

Hi Lou.

> Please do not post slanderous statements here about me. Your saying here that I have a mental illness is defamatory

Mental illness is a very real human condition. I have a mental illness. Knowing this, what is there about me that would deserve a defamatory characterization by you? What did I do wrong? I would encourage you to not add to the stigmatization of mental illness by equating it with defamation.

> and that you say that my religiosness is a result

Religiosity is a clinical symptom of bipolar manic psychosis. It is not a judgment made upon the religion that the affected person practices.

> The term, mental illness, is a vague term that can be defamatory.

The term "mental illness" may not be well defined or understood by much of the public. However, I would hope that your understanding of it were educated and enlightened, as you are a frequent visitor to a forum devoted to the phenomenology of these medical conditions. If I came to the conclusion that you were diabetic and verbalized my belief, in what way have I defamed you? If I came to the conclusion that you were mentally ill and verbalized my belief, in what way have I defamed you?

My saying that you are mentally ill would in no way represent some sort of accusation by me any more than would my saying that you had influenza. I do have some thoughts regarding your behaviors here on Psycho-Babble, but I am not convinced that it would be productive to divulge them at this juncture. My concern for your welfare is very real. If you were in the midst of a bipolar psychotic manic state, it is unlikely that you would recognize it as being such. It is likely, however, that you would reject any suggestions that you were indeed manic.

I don't know whether or not this applies to you, but:

http://www.google.com/#hl=en&sclient=psy-ab&q=manic+psychosis+symptoms+religiosity&oq=manic+psychosis+symptoms+religiosity&gs_l=hp.3...1196.11065.0.11663.38.37.1.0.0.0.159.2680.34j3.37.0.les%3Befrsh..0.0...1.1.yWqizDyRoc0&pbx=1&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.r_qf.&fp=92da361fb107ce2f&bpcl=35466521&biw=1920&bih=910

I do not believe that anything I have written here will influence your thoughts and behaviors. I am hoping that it might influence others.


- Scott

 

Lou's reply-defamation per se » SLS

Posted by Lou Pilder on October 27, 2012, at 17:27:32

In reply to Mental illness? » Lou Pilder, posted by SLS on October 27, 2012, at 15:56:38

> Hi Lou.
>
> > Please do not post slanderous statements here about me. Your saying here that I have a mental illness is defamatory
>
> Mental illness is a very real human condition. I have a mental illness. Knowing this, what is there about me that would deserve a defamatory characterization by you? What did I do wrong? I would encourage you to not add to the stigmatization of mental illness by equating it with defamation.
>
> > and that you say that my religiosness is a result
>
> Religiosity is a clinical symptom of bipolar manic psychosis. It is not a judgment made upon the religion that the affected person practices.
>
> > The term, mental illness, is a vague term that can be defamatory.
>
> The term "mental illness" may not be well defined or understood by much of the public. However, I would hope that your understanding of it were educated and enlightened, as you are a frequent visitor to a forum devoted to the phenomenology of these medical conditions. If I came to the conclusion that you were diabetic and verbalized my belief, in what way have I defamed you? If I came to the conclusion that you were mentally ill and verbalized my belief, in what way have I defamed you?
>
> My saying that you are mentally ill would in no way represent some sort of accusation by me any more than would my saying that you had influenza. I do have some thoughts regarding your behaviors here on Psycho-Babble, but I am not convinced that it would be productive to divulge them at this juncture. My concern for your welfare is very real. If you were in the midst of a bipolar psychotic manic state, it is unlikely that you would recognize it as being such. It is likely, however, that you would reject any suggestions that you were indeed manic.
>
> I don't know whether or not this applies to you, but:
>
> http://www.google.com/#hl=en&sclient=psy-ab&q=manic+psychosis+symptoms+religiosity&oq=manic+psychosis+symptoms+religiosity&gs_l=hp.3...1196.11065.0.11663.38.37.1.0.0.0.159.2680.34j3.37.0.les%3Befrsh..0.0...1.1.yWqizDyRoc0&pbx=1&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.r_qf.&fp=92da361fb107ce2f&bpcl=35466521&biw=1920&bih=910
>
> I do not believe that anything I have written here will influence your thoughts and behaviors. I am hoping that it might influence others.
>
>
> - Scott
>
> Scott,
You wrote the above and asked how writing in a public venue that someone has a mental illness could be defamatory.
The laws of defamation have a section on making a false statement that could damage another's reputation. Liable is the term used when the defamtion is written as here as being published.
when someone is subjected to mental anguish, as I am here, the person is damaged by the mental anguish written toward them and published as in this forum.
Then a false statement that could produce mental anguish is like writing that a person has a sexually transmitted disease or a mental illness. This is in all states in the US except a few and Oh nd Ill are not in the five states. The writing that a person has a mental illness is called liable per se. There is no need to prove that the liable damaged the person.
Now then there are other aspects of defamtion that can offset the laible, such as if the statement is true. But in this case, the writer associates the mental illness with religiosness which gives it a different perspective as the recipiant (me) is complaining about antisemitic statements being allowed to stand and lies being posted about me here.
Now we are not talking abut a defamtion case, but only that as I understand it,in all states except 5, writing that a person has a mental illness is defamatory and liable per se.
There is a stigmatization involved and I agree. That is why I object to anyone here have it written that they have a mental illness, including myself. Someone could be going through a time of great distress such as a death in the family and such and be quite depressed. One could be givn a drug by a psychiarist that induced depression or mania or suicidal ideation. That does not mean that they are mentally ill and can be labled as such. That is why calling someone mentally ill can be defamatory.
Now Mr. Hsiung is allowing the defamation which is a separate topic, but is there not the question that by him allowing it, that he is encouraging it?

Lou


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