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Posted by tepiaca on April 24, 2006, at 13:38:10
I think Im gonna explote , I have get a job of "waitress" ( well I apply for that but they have me doing very tired tasks like moving big boxes of sodas , nothing to do as a waitress Im what is called here in Mexico a Chacha, cleaning dishes, but Im going crazy , from 6PM to 4AM !! and believe me I dont rest even a minute , 9 hours completely with a very though work, the restaurant is full so stay still is not allowed and I have just get surgery 3 months ago in my left foot, so its hurts a lot . The worst thing is that they only pay me 50 dollars a week !!!! its not enough , my medicines are very expensive That is madness , working from thursday to sunday . now I understand people who go to America for a better Job. First time in my life Im doing this kind of job
I think this job is making feel worst , sleeping very bad , Im frustrated .
I didnīt know how hard was to work with depression and social phobia. Im almost sure Im quiting in no more than 1 week.
I am really looking in this moment for support words . Relatives here dont understand me , they
are not helpfull , they just keep making funy at me and even more because Im a "waitres" well not even a waitress. they all have good carreers in this moment, win good money so they take me as a joke and make fun on me
I think Im gona explote , my leg is hurting so much ,my sleeping schedule its a mess
Do you think I should quit ?
Now Im really doubting if Im gonna be able to work as an engineer . Im scared .
Extra xanax at the moment and more because the restaurant is full of people.
Im feel so terrible
Just looking for supportive words ! relatives dont do that and I need it please .
I feel very nervious
tell me someting please , any advice or something
Tepi
Posted by ed_uk on April 24, 2006, at 13:45:47
In reply to Too much pressure, im gonna explote, posted by tepiaca on April 24, 2006, at 13:38:10
Dear Tepi
You're a waitor not a waitress! A waitress is a woman :)
>cleaning dishes
I once had a job in a hospital kitchen. It was pretty awful and I was really bad at it!
>Now Im really doubting if Im gonna be able to work as an engineer
Why Tepi? I know you're very intelligent. I think you can do it.
Saludos!
Ed
Posted by Phillipa on April 24, 2006, at 18:50:55
In reply to Re: Too much pressure, im gonna explote ŧ tepiaca, posted by ed_uk on April 24, 2006, at 13:45:47
Tepi did you check you're E-mail for the message that Ace sent me to give to you? He is not doing well him self and said he hasn't deserted you. Not well himself. And Could you go to Texas and find a job with your old girlfrind and maybe get a pdoc there? Yes the hours are horrible and I don't know how you do it if you are in so much pain emotionally and physically. Are you taking your nardil? Love Phillipa
Posted by tepiaca on April 25, 2006, at 10:53:45
In reply to Too much pressure, im gonna explote, posted by tepiaca on April 24, 2006, at 13:38:10
Im not going to work today nor other day . I quit. I canīt leave my bed
Im not working anymore . Im so apathetic
I cant write more . I feel bad
Thanks eddy and phillipa
Posted by Crazy Horse on April 25, 2006, at 12:15:17
In reply to I quit, posted by tepiaca on April 25, 2006, at 10:53:45
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> Im not going to work today nor other day . I quit. I canīt leave my bed
> Im not working anymore . Im so apathetic
> I cant write more . I feel bad
> Thanks eddy and phillipaHi Tepi,
Sorry you are still hurting. What is you medicine regime now?
At this point, I'm going to encourage you to come to the U.S. Obviously being around your family isn't helping you, they don't understand what you are going through, so in their ignorance they make fun of you..how wrong and how sad. Is there ANYWAY you can live with a friend, relative, someone in Texas until you can get on your feet? I just don't see another way. Come to Texas, get good quality medical help, rest, get well, and then finish school or get a job.This is what i advise. I hope you can do this, because most importantly you need to get under good quality medical care to find out exactly what the problem is, have blood work done...you never know, it could be a thyroid condition causing this..or something else.
I wish the best for you my friend. I continue to pray for you everyday.
Tyler
Posted by Phillipa on April 25, 2006, at 12:18:27
In reply to Re: I quit ŧ tepiaca, posted by Crazy Horse on April 25, 2006, at 12:15:17
Tepi I agree with Crazy Horse. Please call your old girlfriend. She can help you get to the states. Love Phillipa
Posted by tepiaca on April 26, 2006, at 0:05:34
In reply to Re: I quit ŧ tepiaca, posted by Crazy Horse on April 25, 2006, at 12:15:17
> >
> > Im not going to work today nor other day . I quit. I canīt leave my bed
> > Im not working anymore . Im so apathetic
> > I cant write more . I feel bad
> > Thanks eddy and phillipa
>
> Hi Tepi,
> Sorry you are still hurting. What is you medicine regime now?
>45 mg of Nardil and only 3 or 2 mg of Xanax Ty . But Im am increasing it , It just that I havenīt bougth it . Im gonna make the trial of 6mg as you suggested.
> At this point, I'm going to encourage you to come to the U.S. Obviously being around your family isn't helping you, they don't understand what you are going through, so in their ignorance they make fun of you..how wrong and how sad.Yes ty , in some way I understand them . But they all know how much time I have been on antidepressants , but it seems they dont care about me
Is there ANYWAY you can live with a friend, relative, someone in Texas until you can get on your feet? I just don't see another way. Come to Texas, get good quality medical help, rest, get well, and then finish school or get a job.No ty, to be honest is very difficult , I would have to be an ilegal in US . I dont have money neither to pay a doctor there and is very expensive more than here =( . No friends to live there , juts my exgirlfriend but she lives at the university .
>
> This is what i advise. I hope you can do this, because most importantly you need to get under good quality medical care to find out exactly what the problem is, have blood work done...you never know, it could be a thyroid condition causing this..or something else.I have done that ty . My thiroid was ok . Anyway to see if it could help I took shinyntroid for a while . It didnīt help me . I also took testosterone but didnīt help neither
>
> I wish the best for you my friend. I continue to pray for you everyday.
>
> Tylerthank you Ty i really like to have friends here. You are one of the best
Tepi
Posted by tepiaca on April 26, 2006, at 0:10:39
In reply to Re: I quit, posted by Phillipa on April 25, 2006, at 12:18:27
> Tepi I agree with Crazy Horse. Please call your old girlfriend. She can help you get to the states. Love Phillipa
She canīt help me dear phillipa . In some way she also makes some pressure on me . He wants me to make money , to start working . Doesnīt wanna hear anymore about my mental problems . It was enough for her 8 years of hearing me complaining about it . I still think she is the best girl in the world, I need to overcome this so I can be with her again. At least to be a little more normal.
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