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Posted by James Dubin on December 30, 2003, at 17:38:21
Greetings from a newbee. My soon to be ex-wife had a bout with depression. It lasted for about 4 to 4 1/2 years. It was pretty rough times for the both of us. Her boss gave her some Efexor. Shortly there after she was pre-scribed by her doctor. She suddenly stopped crying everyday after work and did not get upset about not fitting in old clothing anymore. It was a new beggining after a long storm. After she was on the drug for about 6 months she turned her brother on to Efexor. And about a year ago she mentioned divorce. Quite a shock to me. Over this period there has been a noticable bi-polar condition which shifted from Sad, egotistical and normal personalities. I was told in January 2003 that if I did not want to move into the city she'd want divorce now. Well we took out a second mtg to fix up the first home and then used it to buy the second home. Shortly after closing she filed divorce anyway. It was a big scam. I dont really aprove the use of this med since it solves one problem while creating another. I went on Efexor when I did'nt really need to but have dwindled down the dose and now have not had it for 6 days as of 12/30/03. I'm experiencing jolts of energy down my spine and dizzyness. As of her brother. He told me just last night he's sorry he has even started taking the drug. Now this whole mess is going to court since I contested it at the last minute. There is a long paper trail of deception and manipulation which the judge is going to see clearly and this is one of the many problems this woman is not going to be able to run away from now whether she's on the Efexor or not. Not only that but after my experience with coming off this drug I wish the best for anybody who starts withdrawling. Lastly I'd like to stress the importance that these kind of drugs should be studied far longer before they are readily availble to people whether it comes from thier doctor, boss or family member respectively.
James
Posted by SickyVicky on December 30, 2003, at 18:44:17
In reply to Efexor and Divorce, posted by James Dubin on December 30, 2003, at 17:38:21
Gosh James, I'm so sorry for what you've been through...unfortunately my husband can sympathize. I have been on Effexor for a couple of years, and starting about 6 months ago our marriage was in serious trouble. I even sought comfort from an ex via the internet. It wasn't until I discussed this with a newly acquired therapist last week that I realized I was pushing my husband away.
I'm relieved to read your story but saddened at how depression and it's medicine can work sometimes. Depression is very frustrating for those of us afflicted with it and sometimes we jump at any opportunity to take the pain away. It pains me to see my husband trying to understand what I'm going through, but can't.
I see my dr. next week and I'm hoping we can find a better drug than Effexor. Good luck James.
Posted by Waterlily on December 31, 2003, at 10:54:51
In reply to Efexor and Divorce, posted by James Dubin on December 30, 2003, at 17:38:21
I'm so sorry to hear about what is happening to you. I'm not even to hazard a guess about what exactly the problem is. I'm just going to put in my two cents about Effexor and its effect on my marriage. I took Effexor for 4-5 months this spring/summer and it was great for a while. Reduced my anxiety and relaxed my inhibitions (I'm a very uptight person and this was very good for our intimate relationship.) This was a great relief to my husband to see me so relaxed and comfortable with myself. Unfortunately, the med caused severe insomnia and I went off it so I'm back to my prissy self once again. My husband says he wishes there was another that has the same good effects of Effexor without the insomnia. I do too.
P.S. Today is our 15th wedding anniversary.
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