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Posted by Fivefires on April 16, 2007, at 15:48:16
LAICADAISICAL, ALOOF, SELF-CENTERED ... OR COULD IT BE LIKE MY MOTHER SAYS ... IS IT ME?
IS IT JUST ME OR IS SOMETHING MISSING WHICH USED TO BE HERE?
I REMEMBER WHAT IT WAS.
IT WAS REALLY CARING AND REALLY BEING THERE. IT WAS LIKE FEELING A REAL SHOULDER.
WHERE THE HELL DID IT GO?
FIVEFIRES
Posted by Sebastian on April 16, 2007, at 15:51:54
In reply to WTF IS WRONG W/ THIS SITE?, posted by Fivefires on April 16, 2007, at 15:48:16
Many years of abusive coments from people. It all adds up and becomes the norm.
Posted by Michael83 on April 16, 2007, at 16:15:00
In reply to WTF IS WRONG W/ THIS SITE?, posted by Fivefires on April 16, 2007, at 15:48:16
Maybe undoing your caps lock will fix it. (I'm just kidding.) =P
Posted by wishingstar on April 16, 2007, at 16:50:02
In reply to Re: WTF IS WRONG W/ THIS SITE? » Fivefires, posted by Michael83 on April 16, 2007, at 16:15:00
I dont know but I feel that way sometimes too fires. It doesnt feel terribly warm. More scary. Which is why I rarely post anymore...
((((fires)))) good luck...
Posted by Honore on April 16, 2007, at 17:25:42
In reply to Re: WTF IS WRONG W/ THIS SITE? » Michael83, posted by wishingstar on April 16, 2007, at 16:50:02
Hi, wishingstar. How do you mean, not warm?
I feel like it's kind of quiet, or non-responsive, but not necessarily not warm. Although there are prickly moments, or interactions. Guess it's difficult sometimes.
I'm sorry you don't post somuch any more. Hope things are going a little better for you with your T and well at work.
best,
Honore
Posted by karen_kay on April 16, 2007, at 17:32:20
In reply to WTF IS WRONG W/ THIS SITE?, posted by Fivefires on April 16, 2007, at 15:48:16
it's not you dear.
it's not the site either.
i think it's the weather.
and the long winter.
i hope you're well.
i really do.
and i think there's something
very wrong with me
not you.take care of yourself.
Posted by Poet on April 16, 2007, at 20:53:43
In reply to WTF IS WRONG W/ THIS SITE?, posted by Fivefires on April 16, 2007, at 15:48:16
Hi 5F,
You can lean on my right shoulder. In fact while you're there could you scratch my back, no, not there, over more, more, ahhh you got it.
Poet
Posted by wishingstar on April 16, 2007, at 21:55:39
In reply to Re: WTF IS WRONG W/ THIS SITE?, posted by Honore on April 16, 2007, at 17:25:42
I just dont feel like part of the "in group" here. I feel like I'm one of the people that hangs around and no one really wants here. I'm hurting so bad and I just feel so alone. I know that no one knows what to say. But it still feels icky. Which is why I dont post a lot. We're all out of things to say... I have nothing new, just the same old pain.. and no one else knows what to say to me either.. so it's better I just dont. Non-responsive feels worse than anything.
Posted by Fivefires on April 16, 2007, at 22:01:55
In reply to Re: WTF IS WRONG W/ THIS SITE? » Fivefires, posted by Poet on April 16, 2007, at 20:53:43
That's funny Poet buttttt
Does every1 not see this place needs someone to sort of 'watch over' these boards. Don't any1 think they did any1 thing wrong. You did nothing wrong. I did nothing wrong. Most of us have done nothing wrong. The thing that's wrong is no one is helping us see it!
Someone should be sitting back keeping watch, because I'm here to say I need help and that's why I came to this site long ago now. No b*llshit psycho stuff going on here. This was a good site. Hell, maybe it built itself. But, I see a problem. It's changed. If it had been as it is today, I doubt I'd hung around.
5f
Posted by kninelover on April 16, 2007, at 22:33:03
In reply to Re: WTF IS WRONG W/ THIS SITE?, posted by Fivefires on April 16, 2007, at 22:01:55
55...
i feel like a bad bad person here...
i have made errors ...
i feel guilty posting here..it is not good for me..i am not good for you..i cant make a difference here...big brother will not let me...just the others..
i am sorry this site is broken...it keeps taking two steps back and never a forward...
i keep holding on to something it is not..
fix it 5†
Posted by Fivefires on April 16, 2007, at 23:06:37
In reply to Re: WTF IS WRONG W/ THIS SITE? » Fivefires, posted by kninelover on April 16, 2007, at 22:33:03
No K9. No. No one person posting here caused anything bad to happen.
This is the way it works. I felt the need to say this, and did. It's fixed. It's cool. It will be better.
5f
Posted by Phillipa on April 17, 2007, at 9:56:15
In reply to Re: WTF IS WRONG W/ THIS SITE? » Fivefires, posted by karen_kay on April 16, 2007, at 17:32:20
NoI don't think it's the weather the site. I've said the same thing. We used to laugh and joke even on the meds board. That feeling of kinship is gone. Which is a shame. Love Phillipa ps some parts of the country the weather is lovely right now.I miss the old babble
Posted by gardenergirl on April 17, 2007, at 10:23:43
In reply to Re: WTF IS WRONG W/ THIS SITE? » karen_kay, posted by Phillipa on April 17, 2007, at 9:56:15
> NoI don't think it's the weather the site. I've said the same thing. We used to laugh and joke even on the meds board. That feeling of kinship is gone. Which is a shame. Love Phillipa ps some parts of the country the weather is lovely right now.I miss the old babble
So what keeps you from laughing and joking now? Don't you think that could be contagious? Somebody has to start.
namasté
gg
Posted by kid47 on April 17, 2007, at 11:50:13
In reply to Re: WTF IS WRONG W/ THIS SITE? » Phillipa, posted by gardenergirl on April 17, 2007, at 10:23:43
> So what keeps you from laughing and joking now?<
Speaking only for myself, the sometimes rather broad interpretation of what constitutes a breach of civility guidelines and the potential for public reprimand/blocks, has me "walking on eggshells" when posting. What might be considered humorous for some, is very often construed by the administrative powers that be, to have the potential to be perceived as offensive or a put down. So rather than deal with the restrictive and seemingly arbitrary nature of THE RULES and their enforcement, I now post sparingly and with a lot less gusto and verve. (Did I actually use gusto and verve in a sentence?)
and of course here is the DISCLAIMER:
These statements are my perceptions only and don't necessarily having any basis in reality. If anything I have written here causes anyone to feel accused, a*saulted, as*imilated, put down, put upon, put in their place, put on a shelf, put out, left out, left over, irate, irritated, irrigated, irrational, irreverent, irresponsible, consternated, constipated, congealed, concerned, confined, confabulated, confused or just sick about it, I am truly sorry. That should about cover it.
Peace out
kid (six+ years and stil a PBC virgin.)...sad isn't it.ps.....This doesn't mean I don't like you or think you are a bad person......If anything, I find you attractive and desirable (on a purely platonic level of course)
Posted by kninelover on April 17, 2007, at 11:58:39
In reply to Re: WTF IS WRONG W/ THIS SITE? » gardenergirl, posted by kid47 on April 17, 2007, at 11:50:13
...
yes indeed.
Posted by Phillipa on April 17, 2007, at 20:08:58
In reply to Re: WTF IS WRONG W/ THIS SITE? » kid47, posted by kninelover on April 17, 2007, at 11:58:39
Some strong feelings emerging.Love Phillipa
Posted by Fivefires on April 18, 2007, at 16:22:31
In reply to Re: WTF IS WRONG W/ THIS SITE?, posted by Phillipa on April 17, 2007, at 20:08:58
I don't know what to say, except maybe ...
it was a pipe dream,
and I'm sorry, I've caused some upset, some controversy, and even certain babblers to feel attacked.
I've given a lot of thought to some times in the past when my feelings were hurt.
I've decided that I'd try and understand another person may be coming from an entirely different mindset than I, and 'often it is not about me at all', and told myself, in the future, I'd try to be more aware of this.
5f
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