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Posted by 838 on March 5, 2006, at 3:43:43
In reply to Re: ((((dinah)))) (nm), posted by 838 on March 5, 2006, at 3:43:24
Posted by 838 on March 5, 2006, at 3:45:39
In reply to Re: ((((larry)))) (nm), posted by 838 on March 5, 2006, at 3:43:43
i hate naming people...
'cause people can feel left out :-(dr bob too...
((dr bob))
sorry :-(
didn't mean to hurt.
really.
just hurts so much sometimes :-(
sorry.hope we are done now...
we might move to a new name...
but need to see whether it is going to be safe to do that first.
i'm so sorry :-(
Posted by lynn971 on March 5, 2006, at 8:42:11
In reply to Re: ((((there are more)))), posted by 838 on March 5, 2006, at 3:45:39
Posted by Sobriquet Style on March 5, 2006, at 8:52:54
In reply to Re: IF YOU WANT TO KNOW ABOUT SOMEONE » Sobriquet Style, posted by Gabbix2 on March 4, 2006, at 12:40:46
>ewwwwwwwww
Yes lol thats kinda what I thought
>Maybe I wasn't so far wrong.
I don't think you was :-)
~
Posted by wildcard11 on March 5, 2006, at 9:54:09
In reply to Re: ((((Clearskies)))) (nm), posted by lynn971 on March 5, 2006, at 8:42:11
i hate when things get all messed up like this. hopefully things will work themselves out for everyone involved...
Posted by Dinah on March 5, 2006, at 10:20:21
In reply to Re: ((((there are more)))), posted by 838 on March 5, 2006, at 3:45:39
Posted by Dinah on March 5, 2006, at 10:22:58
In reply to ((((Clearskies)))), posted by wildcard11 on March 5, 2006, at 9:54:09
I always regret the hurt to all people involved.
Posted by Damos on March 5, 2006, at 15:02:36
In reply to Re: (((838)))) (nm), posted by Dinah on March 5, 2006, at 10:20:21
Posted by Gabbix2 on March 5, 2006, at 18:05:03
In reply to ((((((((((838)))))))))) (nm), posted by Damos on March 5, 2006, at 15:02:36
Hugs for 838
(((((((((((( 838 )))))))
I feel like I'm hugging a revolver or something.
Hmm.
you see the other one I could personalize Thinking about the verse from 12 days of Christmas.But 838?
Well I will manage : )
Posted by zeugma on March 5, 2006, at 20:13:26
In reply to Eleventy-Seven..---, posted by Gabbix2 on March 5, 2006, at 18:05:03
Posted by Gabbix2 on March 5, 2006, at 21:29:10
In reply to (((838))) (nm), posted by zeugma on March 5, 2006, at 20:13:26
Just cause I think you're a pretty trick guy.
Posted by 838 on March 6, 2006, at 0:24:31
In reply to Re: ((((there are more)))), posted by 838 on March 5, 2006, at 3:45:39
i really am sorry :-(
sometimes... get a little lost between then and now
and them and people here
and what happened before and what happens nowand people here copped the lot
and i'm sorry for the things i've said :-(
i think some of it comes from...
spread of affect
rather than informing of affect too
i'm sorry
i hurt a lot :-(
but that is no excuse
it is now :-(
and i'm really very sorry.
i don't think i've ever gone off like that before...
though maybe i have a little in the past...
but maybe not like that because usually...
people call me on it and say they won't have anything to do with me if i continue :-(
and so then i take it out on myself.
i haven't done that.
feel bad
real bad
but i haven't done that.but i'm really very sorry
and i hope it never happens again
really very sorry :-(
Posted by 838 on March 6, 2006, at 0:25:57
In reply to Re: ((((there are more)))), posted by 838 on March 6, 2006, at 0:24:31
and maybe we will go to councellors here...
maybe we will...
just terrified about privacy
and terrified about rejection
and terrified about things having to get worse before better
and terrified about being deported
and i'm really very sorry
but maybe...
it will come to that :-(
Posted by Dr. Bob on March 6, 2006, at 2:13:23
In reply to Re: IF YOU WANT TO KNOW ABOUT SOMEONE » lynn971, posted by Dinah on March 4, 2006, at 23:03:21
> since it was asked as a question rather than a statement, I have asked Dr. Bob, and if he thinks it's appropriate he'll restore the name.
I think the guiding principle here should be sensitivity to the feelings of the person posting under the new name. It's natural to wonder who they are, but they changed their name for a reason, and it may have been to get a fresh start.
If you're curious, one thing you can do is check their initial post on Admin, they may have said there who they used to be.
Another option, as 5 said, is to ask them. But ask them how they feel about being connected to their old name, not whether they used to be x or y, since if they're uncomfortable being connected to their old name, they're probably going to be uncomfortable having others guess.
Does that make sense? Thanks,
Bob
Posted by ClearSkies on March 6, 2006, at 8:21:22
In reply to ((((Clearskies)))), posted by wildcard11 on March 5, 2006, at 9:54:09
Posted by ClearSkies on March 6, 2006, at 8:21:49
In reply to Re: ((((Clearskies)))) (nm), posted by lynn971 on March 5, 2006, at 8:42:11
Posted by Dinah on March 6, 2006, at 9:21:32
In reply to Re: ((((there are more)))), posted by 838 on March 6, 2006, at 0:24:31
You know, 838, I really like that about you. And I always have.
I'm glad you didn't take it out on yourself this time.
And I hope that you decide to seek counseling where you are, not because of Babble, but if it will help you with life, and because there's absolutely no shame in it, you know.
Posted by zeugma on March 6, 2006, at 16:47:34
In reply to (((Zeugma))), posted by Gabbix2 on March 5, 2006, at 21:29:10
and you're a pretty trick girl.
-z
Posted by Damos on March 9, 2006, at 15:35:44
In reply to Eleventy-Seven..---, posted by Gabbix2 on March 5, 2006, at 18:05:03
> Hmm.
> you see the other one I could personalize Thinking about the verse from 12 days of Christmas.
For me it was that cute little robot critter from "Short Circuit" that came to life. 5 is Alive, 5 is Alive. I'm such a dag.
Posted by Gabbix2 on March 10, 2006, at 17:39:18
In reply to Re: Eleventy-Seven..--- » Gabbix2, posted by Damos on March 9, 2006, at 15:35:44
awww.
Maybe we could think of a nickname that would suit?
I think maybe, Muffy, or bambi (too bad I can't dot the i with a little heart)
ow! 858 that was a JOKE!!
okay
Maybe Agent 858 would be better.
Posted by agent858 on March 12, 2006, at 2:18:39
In reply to Re: Eleventy-Seven..--- ?Damos, posted by Gabbix2 on March 10, 2006, at 17:39:18
mwah ha ha!
now stop with the guessing peoples
:-)
Posted by agent858 on March 16, 2006, at 21:53:32
In reply to Re: Eleventy-Seven..---, posted by agent858 on March 12, 2006, at 2:18:39
maybe you were kidding but i decided to go with your suggestion...
am i cuddlier???
Posted by Gabbix2 on March 18, 2006, at 20:16:05
In reply to Re: gabbi???, posted by agent858 on March 16, 2006, at 21:53:32
Oh I'm sorry, I didn't even see this until now!
I like it!
I'm actually really tickled that you chose it.
Are you cuddlier?
Well, I know the answer, and so do you but an Agent will attempt to keep certain things from becoming public knowledge, at all costs ; )
Posted by agent858 on March 18, 2006, at 20:33:34
In reply to Re: gabbi??? ?agent858, posted by Gabbix2 on March 18, 2006, at 20:16:05
> Oh I'm sorry, I didn't even see this until now!
oh. good. i thought you were ignoring me on purpose :0(
> I like it!:-)
> I'm actually really tickled that you chose it.
:-)
i thought you might be
:-)
> Are you cuddlier?
> Well, I know the answer, and so do you but an Agent will attempt to keep certain things from becoming public knowledge, at all costs ; )oh. okay then...
er... what kind of an agent am i?
like the matrix special agents?
or like the fbi or somehting?
you know i'm bugging your computer - right?
(joke)
one shouldn't joke about these matters on a mental health site no doubt
;-)
Posted by special_k on March 18, 2006, at 20:52:12
In reply to Re: gabbi??? » Gabbix2, posted by agent858 on March 18, 2006, at 20:33:34
and in the name of health...
etc
:-)
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