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Posted by alexandra_k on February 21, 2005, at 20:53:54
In reply to I think it was pretty okay, posted by gardenergirl on February 21, 2005, at 19:53:29
> I think it went well.
Good :-)
>I go back next week for a 2nd interview
Another one??? No way!
>and should know the next day after that.
:-)
>Not that many candidates. Very nice facility. Very nice people. I think I was pretty much myself, although I know I had some nervous habits that someone may have noticed. Should have brought my river rock.
I think it is good to come across as slightly nervous. That shows them that it is important to you.
Let us know when the next one is so we can wish you luck again :-) I'm glad you are feeling okay about it all. Nerve wracking, I know.
Posted by fallsfall on February 21, 2005, at 20:58:31
In reply to I think it was pretty okay, posted by gardenergirl on February 21, 2005, at 19:53:29
Well, if they are having you back for a 2nd interview, you passed the first one!
Party time! I'll bring the bibs.
Posted by Dinah on February 22, 2005, at 9:02:36
In reply to I think it was pretty okay, posted by gardenergirl on February 21, 2005, at 19:53:29
Posted by 10derHeart on February 28, 2005, at 13:03:32
In reply to I think it was pretty okay, posted by gardenergirl on February 21, 2005, at 19:53:29
gg,
When is your 2nd interview? I've been thinking of you, and how you must be looking forward to getting past this part.... let us know.
Posted by gardenergirl on March 1, 2005, at 7:39:47
In reply to Re: I think it was pretty okay » gardenergirl, posted by 10derHeart on February 28, 2005, at 13:03:32
I go for about a half hour this afternoon. I will know tomorrow.
Woo hoo! Keep your fingers and monkey toes crossed (if you have them).
Thanks,
gg
Posted by All Done on March 1, 2005, at 8:25:07
In reply to Second interview today » 10derHeart, posted by gardenergirl on March 1, 2005, at 7:39:47
I've got my fingers and toes crossed for you. Hopefully, they'll do the trick even though they aren't monkey toes ;).
You'll do fantastic and I can't wait to hear the good news tomorrow!!
Laurie
Posted by TamaraJ on March 1, 2005, at 10:22:42
In reply to Second interview today » 10derHeart, posted by gardenergirl on March 1, 2005, at 7:39:47
Good luck! I'll even try to cross my eyes for you!
Tamara
> I go for about a half hour this afternoon. I will know tomorrow.
>
> Woo hoo! Keep your fingers and monkey toes crossed (if you have them).
>
> Thanks,
> gg
Posted by Susan47 on March 1, 2005, at 10:58:57
In reply to Second interview today » 10derHeart, posted by gardenergirl on March 1, 2005, at 7:39:47
Posted by TofuEmmy on March 1, 2005, at 11:33:56
In reply to Second interview today » 10derHeart, posted by gardenergirl on March 1, 2005, at 7:39:47
Posted by fallsfall on March 1, 2005, at 11:44:13
In reply to Second interview today » 10derHeart, posted by gardenergirl on March 1, 2005, at 7:39:47
Posted by fallsfall on March 1, 2005, at 11:46:56
In reply to Doing the pom pom thing... Go, GG! (nm) » gardenergirl, posted by fallsfall on March 1, 2005, at 11:44:13
Hmmm... It seems to be putting in the *s only some of the time?? It left them in the subject line of the above post...
This is a test: p*m p*m !!
Doesn't take much to amuse some people...
Posted by All Done on March 1, 2005, at 11:57:35
In reply to Legs crossed, but I gotta pee.......hurry back (nm) » gardenergirl, posted by TofuEmmy on March 1, 2005, at 11:33:56
Posted by partlycloudy on March 1, 2005, at 17:32:50
In reply to Second interview today » 10derHeart, posted by gardenergirl on March 1, 2005, at 7:39:47
Posted by gardenergirl on March 2, 2005, at 16:19:48
In reply to Good luck, gg! (nm), posted by partlycloudy on March 1, 2005, at 17:32:50
Thanks everyone for your support and cheerleading. It helps to know that you have confidence in me. But I didn't get it. It was down to 3 for 2 positions. It was very close, she said.
I asked her for feedback, and she said that I was not as focused in the interview about my future plans and how this opportunity would help me reach those goals. And rightly so. I didn't have good answers for that.
Plus, I finding that stuff I feel more intuitive about I have a hard time breaking down into a logical and linear explanations. You know, the nuts and bolts of it. I just know it.
So, I'm sad, but I'm trying not to feel personally rejected. Instead, I'm trying to learn from this experience and do better next time.
sigh
Anybody's T need an intern for next year? ;-)
(kidding)Thanks again. Babble is a great place for my ego.
gg
Posted by Susan47 on March 2, 2005, at 17:21:24
In reply to Well poo, posted by gardenergirl on March 2, 2005, at 16:19:48
I know, that's the way it is sometimes, we're not the perfect fit for somebody BUT good for you asking for feedback, I think that's something worthwhile for me to look into as well, on my last interview. I should phone and ask what's happening, but I'm scared to, I'll do it tomorrow. I'm afraid of way too much, it immobilizes me all the time. Good for you, GG.
Posted by partlycloudy on March 2, 2005, at 19:09:28
In reply to Well poo, posted by gardenergirl on March 2, 2005, at 16:19:48
hmmm... shame you can't give this place as a reference. You've helped me hugely, gg.
i find interviewing a strange experience... it can be so intimidating and yet, it's also your chance to interview your potential employer. They get a little cagey when you turn it around, you know?
hugs and lots more to you,
pc
Posted by All Done on March 2, 2005, at 19:55:26
In reply to Well poo, posted by gardenergirl on March 2, 2005, at 16:19:48
That just plain stinks, gg :(. I'm sorry you didn't get it.
I hope something even better comes up instead. I know it's probably hard to believe right now, but maybe everything happens for a reason, ya know? You'll find somewhere to work that will end up being a better fit for them and you.
Good luck in your search, (((((gg))))).
Take care,
LaurieP.S. I think this situation calls for some ice cream. Falls?
Posted by alexandra_k on March 2, 2005, at 20:21:53
In reply to Well poo, posted by gardenergirl on March 2, 2005, at 16:19:48
((((gg)))
I'm sorry hon :-(
But I reckon something better will turn up for you...
I understand how hard it is not to take that sort of thing personally..
Hang in there.
We still think you are fab.
They obviously didn't fully appreciate what and who they were missing out on.
Posted by fallsfall on March 2, 2005, at 20:33:23
In reply to Re: Well poo, posted by All Done on March 2, 2005, at 19:55:26
I'll bring the ice cream!
I'm sorry it didn't work out for you, GG. I am impressed that you asked why you didn't get the job.
Posted by TamaraJ on March 2, 2005, at 20:44:11
In reply to Well poo, posted by gardenergirl on March 2, 2005, at 16:19:48
(((Gardenergirl)))
Double Poo! I am so sorry things did not work out. Their loss as far as I'm concerned. I am glad, however, that you are maintaining a positive attitude and using this as a learning experience.
Take care,
Tamara
Posted by Gabbi-x-2 on March 2, 2005, at 21:12:24
In reply to Re: Well poo » All Done, posted by fallsfall on March 2, 2005, at 20:33:23
All Right! Tell me who they are. How could they not just see how perfect you are.. I'll I'll..
No I suppose that wouldn't be wise. I'm sorry G.G. Lots of good things will happen for you though. Really. I'm good at figuring those things out.
Posted by anastasia56 on March 2, 2005, at 22:14:21
In reply to Re: Well poo » fallsfall, posted by Gabbi-x-2 on March 2, 2005, at 21:12:24
everything happens for a reason. this just means there is something else you need to be available for.
ana
Posted by daisym on March 3, 2005, at 0:00:19
In reply to Re: Well poo, posted by anastasia56 on March 2, 2005, at 22:14:21
:( I'm sorry GG. I know you worked hard to prepare for this.
I'm sure you will find something. I'd love to have you up here. We are in desperate need of a mental health professional. But you'd have to change your speciality...little ones instead of older ones.
You are very special. Someone will see that soon.
(((GG)))
Posted by gardenergirl on March 3, 2005, at 0:58:43
In reply to Re: Well poo, posted by daisym on March 3, 2005, at 0:00:19
You all have been so kind and are saying exactly what I need to hear. Why is it when someone says something kind is when I am most likely to cry?
I was feeling pretty good all day today, proud of myself for how I was "handling" this. Heck,for some reason, I didn't even cry in therapy today even though we were continuing down the same path we've been on. That may be a first.
So I read all these wonderful posts, and now I'm bawling. Hmmmm, what's up? Is this what unconditional love is supposed to be like? You fall flat on something, and your friends are right there to catch you?
I'm profoundly moved. I thank you all.
Now let's add that place to the TP list, eh? :)
gg
Posted by 10derHeart on March 3, 2005, at 1:49:26
In reply to Shoot, it's almost 2 a.m. NOW I'm crying?, posted by gardenergirl on March 3, 2005, at 0:58:43
> Why is it when someone says something kind is when I am most likely to cry?
This is me all the time. I'd say the kinder and more caring it is, the more I know I'll break down if I keep listening and allowing it in. I think it's because...when we KNOW, in our heart of hearts, the words of compassion and caring are so genuine, so just right, they touch us in a deep place, just below where the painful dissapointment is trying to stay hidden, and help release it. It's rather abrupt, though. And the release, though needed, hurts, too, in a different way. Does that make some sense...if an intuitive, emotional explanation can make *sense?*Alternately, I picture my daughter many years back, maybe around 18 months-age 2, upset but holding back, scared by something, scanning the room, then finding me. She'd run into my arms, to safety and love and comfort, and THEN burst into tears.
There's a bit (or a LOT, in my case) of that child still inside us. Perhaps without knowing it, when you posted to let us know whathad happened, you were *scanning the room.*
And GG, you are awesome. This apparently wasn't the right path. When you find it, and look back and realize how the pieces of this present diappointment fit, that will be a beautiful day. And it will come. But for now, this does suck. So I'm glad you can be both brave AND let yourself cry, too. Sounds awfully healthy to me ((gg)) :-) - 10der
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