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Posted by fallsfall on December 6, 2003, at 17:32:17
In reply to Re: I flunked too, posted by Larry Hoover on December 6, 2003, at 16:18:21
What about you and SusanJ????
Posted by Larry Hoover on December 6, 2003, at 18:11:59
In reply to Re: I flunked too » Larry Hoover, posted by fallsfall on December 6, 2003, at 17:32:17
> What about you and SusanJ????
Um? huh? What what about me and Sooz?
Eh?
Lar
Posted by Jai Narayan on December 7, 2003, at 10:01:12
In reply to Re: I flunked too » fallsfall, posted by Larry Hoover on December 6, 2003, at 18:11:59
Posted by Larry Hoover on December 7, 2003, at 10:10:49
In reply to hummm thought you weren't available? (nm), posted by Jai Narayan on December 7, 2003, at 10:01:12
I was doing research....
....so I could offer informed commentary.
Lar
Posted by Jai Narayan on December 7, 2003, at 10:59:24
In reply to Re: hummm thought you weren't available? » Jai Narayan, posted by Larry Hoover on December 7, 2003, at 10:10:49
okay I'm curious, where's this site and how much does it cost?
wish me luck.....
Posted by Larry Hoover on December 7, 2003, at 11:50:02
In reply to oh Lar, you are such an investigative scientist, posted by Jai Narayan on December 7, 2003, at 10:59:24
> okay I'm curious, where's this site and how much does it cost?
http://www.eharmony.com/core/eharmony?cmd=home
It's free until the point where you might want to contact a "match"....then it's $300.
If nothing else, they give you a psych profile.
> wish me luck.....
Luck?
Lar
Posted by Penny on December 7, 2003, at 12:10:23
In reply to I flunked internet dating, posted by kara lynne on December 6, 2003, at 3:11:41
I filled out the extensive questionnaire for one of the online dating services and got the same response. Clearly, they don't know what they're missing...
Not to mention, I would bet that the people who DO fit into their profiles aren't being completely honest...
Oh well.
P
Posted by Jai Narayan on December 7, 2003, at 13:56:10
In reply to Re: oh Lar, you are such an investigative scientist » Jai Narayan, posted by Larry Hoover on December 7, 2003, at 11:50:02
> If nothing else, they give you a psych profile.
okay I went for the profile...I was 3/4 of the way through and my computer crashed....that is one long profile.... I am not sure I can do it again. you who have done it deserve a metal of some sort for the endurance & patience you displayed.
> > wish me luck.....
> Luck?
oh honey I was being silly (ps calling someone honey is new for me...I guess I can do it too.)
> Lar
Jai
Posted by Karen_kay on December 8, 2003, at 11:18:33
In reply to luck or a patience of god, posted by Jai Narayan on December 7, 2003, at 13:56:10
I just got through about 3 pages and quit the dating profile. Do I lack patience? I just figured it wasn't worth my time to fidn out there may be some 25 year old frat boy in Tampa Bay florida waiting to meet me. Or better yet, no one is up to par with my standards. What I do find fascinating is the fact that so many of you intelligent people took the time out of your busy schedule to fill out a long survey to make someone else feel better! Also, think aobut most of the people who are answering the questions online. They aren't answering them truthfully! If they want to get a date anyway! That's sweet. I'd take my chances with a stranger!
Posted by Susan J on December 8, 2003, at 12:32:01
In reply to Re: I flunked too » Larry Hoover, posted by fallsfall on December 6, 2003, at 17:32:17
Posted by Larry Hoover on December 8, 2003, at 12:53:08
In reply to LOL! Larry's Way Out of My League!!!! (nm) » fallsfall, posted by Susan J on December 8, 2003, at 12:32:01
Hey!
Are you saying I'm not good enough?
Posted by Susan J on December 8, 2003, at 13:00:21
In reply to Re: LOL! Larry's Way Out of My League!!!! » Susan J, posted by Larry Hoover on December 8, 2003, at 12:53:08
Lar,
>
> Are you saying I'm not good enough?<<Oh, no! You are *too* good for me. A girl's gotta know her limitations! :-p
S.
Posted by fallsfall on December 8, 2003, at 13:10:38
In reply to Re: LOL! Larry's Way Out of My League!!!! » Larry Hoover, posted by Susan J on December 8, 2003, at 13:00:21
Larry and Susan,
My memory stinks these days, so I could be way off base, but wasn't there a time (a couple of months ago?) when the two of you were trading posts back and forth, and we (at least I) were/was teasing you about getting together?
It thought it was you two, But I could be wrong. Maybe I'll get motivated enough to look back...
Posted by Larry Hoover on December 8, 2003, at 13:15:23
In reply to Re: LOL! Larry's Way Out of My League!!!! » Larry Hoover, posted by Susan J on December 8, 2003, at 13:00:21
> Lar,
>
> >
> > Are you saying I'm not good enough?
>
> <<Oh, no! You are *too* good for me. A girl's gotta know her limitations! :-p
>
> S.You just too darn lawy...I mean literal. I be funnin' wit ya...
:-p
Posted by Susan J on December 8, 2003, at 13:28:18
In reply to Re: LOL! Larry's Way Out of My League!!!! » Susan J, posted by fallsfall on December 8, 2003, at 13:10:38
Falls --
>
> My memory stinks these days, so I could be way off base, but wasn't there a time (a couple of months ago?) when the two of you were trading posts back and forth, and we (at least I) were/was teasing you about getting together?
<<Yeah, that was YOU! :-) I can't remember the context -- mighta had something to do with my internet dating dramas... :-)Susan
Posted by Susan J on December 8, 2003, at 13:33:33
In reply to Re: LOL! Larry's Way Out of My League!!!! » Susan J, posted by Larry Hoover on December 8, 2003, at 13:15:23
Or I could write an "Ode to Larry Hoover" that's so long it'd bring this server down! :-)
Posted by Larry Hoover on December 8, 2003, at 15:11:45
In reply to Be Careful Larry » Larry Hoover, posted by Susan J on December 8, 2003, at 13:33:33
> Or I could write an "Ode to Larry Hoover" that's so long it'd bring this server down! :-)
OK, that would be lovely....
Posted by Susan J on December 8, 2003, at 15:21:46
In reply to Be Careful Larry » Larry Hoover, posted by Susan J on December 8, 2003, at 13:33:33
Posted by Jai Narayan on December 8, 2003, at 18:57:57
In reply to I Shall Entitle it *Eh?* ......... (nm) » Susan J, posted by Susan J on December 8, 2003, at 15:21:46
Posted by JadeT on December 9, 2003, at 8:18:42
In reply to luck or a patience of god, posted by Jai Narayan on December 7, 2003, at 13:56:10
> oh honey I was being silly (ps calling someone honey is new for me...I guess I can do it too.)
>
>Jai,
Lar has already spelt out to you that he has a sweetheart. Then he asked you to respect that realm of his life...
So WHY don't you just leave him alone on that point instead of keepin on and on...
Posted by Jai Narayan on December 9, 2003, at 8:54:31
In reply to Re: luck or a patience of god » Jai Narayan, posted by JadeT on December 9, 2003, at 8:18:42
Posted by Jai Narayan on December 9, 2003, at 9:10:22
In reply to Re: luck or a patience of god » Jai Narayan, posted by JadeT on December 9, 2003, at 8:18:42
> Lar has already spelt out to you that he has a sweetheart. Then he asked you to respect that realm of his life...
I thought I had been clear and I thought I had communicated my clairty to him through a post...I am not interested in any way other than friendship....
> So WHY don't you just leave him alone on that point instead of keepin on and on...
>
I am so sorry this has upset you...if I could take back my silly comment I would...but truely I am being silly...
No harm intended...please forgive me, I am still new at all of this and obviously can make mistakes...
peace?
Jai Narayan
Posted by Karen_kay on December 9, 2003, at 11:55:47
In reply to gosh, I'm really sorry., posted by Jai Narayan on December 9, 2003, at 9:10:22
Sheesh! All she did was call him honey! I call people honey all the time too... Is that a big deal? If it is, isn't it his place to point it out, if he feels that it is in fact threatening. I just think there is no point in making her feel accused if there is no reason warrenting the accusation. I say, leave it to Larry. Just my two cents, hun!
Karen
Posted by Jai Narayan on December 9, 2003, at 14:01:53
In reply to Re: gosh, I'm really sorry. » Jai Narayan, posted by Karen_kay on December 9, 2003, at 11:55:47
Dear Karen, I want to thank you for being there for me. I cried with relief and a sweet sadness. I don't very often let myself get too vulnerable. I definitely felt too vulnerable. I just like that you stood there and said what I might have said if it had been someone else. What does this psycho babble do to me? It feels so intimate and yet it's written words from people I hardly know. But I felt like I was out there hanging. Thanks.
I was never good about how to do the right thing. When there are covert rules I get real confused. I thought I was being sweet and kind. I guess I have to stumbled around a lot till I get my center.
If I step on toes…I sure don't mean to.
But one request to all who think or feel that I have said the wrong thing ( in future situations).....be honest with me but please be kind as well?
It hurts any other way.
Jai Narayan
Posted by Dinah on December 9, 2003, at 14:10:11
In reply to Karen , thanks, posted by Jai Narayan on December 9, 2003, at 14:01:53
I really admire how brave you are to be that vulnerable.
I'm sorry you felt hurt. I've been there plenty of times myself, and didn't handle it nearly as graciously as you.
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