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Posted by kazoo on January 1, 2002, at 2:27:29
I've been away for a while, and it's nice to see the "regulars" still here (and you know who you are!).
This vituperative epistle is dedicated to the two butchers at the John Dempsey Hospital (Farmington, CT) who butchered, abused and neglected my mother for 47 days resulting in her untimely death on December 6, 2001. What these two so-called "doctors" did to my poor mother was nothing less than Nazi medicine American style. How these two stay in practice is beyond me; however, the question was posed to MEDICARE, the State of Connecticut, the American Hospital Association, Senators Lieberman and Dodd, as well as eight malpractice lawyers; let these agencies and people find the answer, because I still don't know how or why my mother died. My mother suffered horribly from the multiple mistakes they made, ones they "confessed" to to me and my family.
"Bless me, Father, for I have sinned ... through my own stupidity, I killed a 79 year old senior citizen."
How else can I interprete their actions and statements as being pure "quackery"? The name "teaching hosptials" is is misnomer. People go there to die at the hands of amateurs.
All I know is this: these people killed my Ma, but not without torturing her first. For the last two weeks of her life, all she could say was "Help me! Help me!" I watched in horror of what they did to her, and despite my constant complaining and questioning, they totally ignored me. They are not men. They haven't a clue of what it's like to be "human."
After four weeks, I am still angry, severely depressed and grieving. I don't know if I can overcome, much less control, my emotions at this point. I'm compulsed to do something inappropriate, but I have to temper my actions.
Are you reading this Hager and Schulman? Are you current with your malpractice insurance premium this year?
You hear, read and see these horrors but they always happen to other people, not you. But no one is beyond reproach. No one is safe. Neither me or you.
I plan to put up a website honoring my mother. She died a martyr.
I apologize for this bummer news. I'm having a hard time and I need help.
Sadly yours,
kazoo
AVOID THESE SONS OF BITCHES:
=====================
W. David Hager, MD
Specialties: Cardiology (Heart), Psychiatry & NeurologyCARDIO-PULMONARY
C22120 MC2202The University Of Connecticut Health Center
The John Dempsey Hospital
263 Farmington Ave, Farmington, CT 06030-0001
Office Phone: (860) 679-2771
Clinic Phone: (860) 679-3343
FAX : (860) 679-3346
e-mail : HAGER@NSO1.UCHC.EDU===================================================
Dr. Peter Schulman
CARDIO-PULMONARY
C2119 MC2202The University of Connecticut Health Center
The John Dempsey Hospital
263 Farmington Ave., Farmington, CTOFFICE: (860)679-2771
CLINIC: (860)679-3343
FAX : (860)679-3346
E-MAIL: SCHULMAN@NSO1.UCHC.EDU
Posted by kiddo on January 1, 2002, at 3:57:24
In reply to 2002 is a palindrome, posted by kazoo on January 1, 2002, at 2:27:29
Kazoo-
I remember the anguish I went through when my father passed away; after being ill for over a year. I can't imagine adding what you described to that pain. I can't think of any words strong enough that could possibly help ease your suffering, but I'd like you to know I'm thinking of you, saying prayers, and will be around if you wanna chat.
I hope things get better for you, although it won't be any time soon I'm sure...please accept my condolences in the needless loss of your mom...I'm thinking of ya.
Kiddo
> I've been away for a while, and it's nice to see the "regulars" still here (and you know who you are!).
>
> This vituperative epistle is dedicated to the two butchers at the John Dempsey Hospital (Farmington, CT) who butchered, abused and neglected my mother for 47 days resulting in her untimely death on December 6, 2001. What these two so-called "doctors" did to my poor mother was nothing less than Nazi medicine American style. How these two stay in practice is beyond me; however, the question was posed to MEDICARE, the State of Connecticut, the American Hospital Association, Senators Lieberman and Dodd, as well as eight malpractice lawyers; let these agencies and people find the answer, because I still don't know how or why my mother died. My mother suffered horribly from the multiple mistakes they made, ones they "confessed" to to me and my family.
>
> "Bless me, Father, for I have sinned ... through my own stupidity, I killed a 79 year old senior citizen."
>
> How else can I interprete their actions and statements as being pure "quackery"? The name "teaching hosptials" is is misnomer. People go there to die at the hands of amateurs.
>
> All I know is this: these people killed my Ma, but not without torturing her first. For the last two weeks of her life, all she could say was "Help me! Help me!" I watched in horror of what they did to her, and despite my constant complaining and questioning, they totally ignored me. They are not men. They haven't a clue of what it's like to be "human."
>
> After four weeks, I am still angry, severely depressed and grieving. I don't know if I can overcome, much less control, my emotions at this point. I'm compulsed to do something inappropriate, but I have to temper my actions.
>
> Are you reading this Hager and Schulman? Are you current with your malpractice insurance premium this year?
>
> You hear, read and see these horrors but they always happen to other people, not you. But no one is beyond reproach. No one is safe. Neither me or you.
>
> I plan to put up a website honoring my mother. She died a martyr.
>
> I apologize for this bummer news. I'm having a hard time and I need help.
>
> Sadly yours,
>
> kazoo
>
>
> AVOID THESE SONS OF BITCHES:
> =====================
> W. David Hager, MD
> Specialties: Cardiology (Heart), Psychiatry & Neurology
>
> CARDIO-PULMONARY
> C22120 MC2202
>
> The University Of Connecticut Health Center
> The John Dempsey Hospital
> 263 Farmington Ave, Farmington, CT 06030-0001
> Office Phone: (860) 679-2771
> Clinic Phone: (860) 679-3343
> FAX : (860) 679-3346
> e-mail : HAGER@NSO1.UCHC.EDU
>
> ===================================================
>
> Dr. Peter Schulman
> CARDIO-PULMONARY
> C2119 MC2202
>
> The University of Connecticut Health Center
> The John Dempsey Hospital
> 263 Farmington Ave., Farmington, CT
>
> OFFICE: (860)679-2771
> CLINIC: (860)679-3343
> FAX : (860)679-3346
> E-MAIL: SCHULMAN@NSO1.UCHC.EDU
Posted by dreamer on January 1, 2002, at 6:29:56
In reply to 2002 is a palindrome, posted by kazoo on January 1, 2002, at 2:27:29
Posted by akc on January 1, 2002, at 8:50:03
In reply to 2002 is a palindrome, posted by kazoo on January 1, 2002, at 2:27:29
kazoo,
I'm so sorry. Losing a loved one is so difficult. No one should have to do so under the circumstances you describe. You are in my thoughts.
akc
Posted by sid on January 1, 2002, at 10:19:34
In reply to 2002 is a palindrome, posted by kazoo on January 1, 2002, at 2:27:29
to you and your family. May 2002 bring you some peace within yourself and with the world.
Posted by susan C on January 1, 2002, at 14:51:07
In reply to 2002 is a palindrome, posted by kazoo on January 1, 2002, at 2:27:29
dear musical instrument,
i was so worried about your absence, concerned that someone you cared about was ill. I remember what it was like when my inlaws were ill, and died, 10days after each other...death is never easy to watch, especially when you are a sensitive caring person. i hope your attorneys do well by you, having a good attorney is like having good insurance. please accept my sincerest condolances in this, your time of grief.sending a little mouse hug
Posted by Krazy Kat on January 1, 2002, at 14:51:21
In reply to 2002 is a palindrome, posted by kazoo on January 1, 2002, at 2:27:29
Nothing I can write will help, I know. But I'm still compelled to try.
I'm so sorry. I can actually feel a little of your pain. I'm so sorry.
- K.
Posted by Cam W. on January 1, 2002, at 18:26:33
In reply to 2002 is a palindrome, posted by kazoo on January 1, 2002, at 2:27:29
Kazoo - Thinking of you in your time of pain. Take care of yourself. - Cam
Posted by Greg on January 1, 2002, at 20:33:14
In reply to 2002 is a palindrome, posted by kazoo on January 1, 2002, at 2:27:29
Kazoo,
I'm very saddened to hear about your loss. My thoughts and condolences go out to you. Please try to take care of yourself.
Greg
Posted by Willow on January 1, 2002, at 23:41:41
In reply to Re: 2002 is a palindrome, posted by Greg on January 1, 2002, at 20:33:14
The year I became ill was a write-off in my books. They say all things come in threes, and I do believe you've had three tradegies in the past year, any one of which would have floored me. Take the time to mourn each loss.
I wish the new year to bring fine vine to your table and good friends to help you toast to fond memories.
And yes my dearest, 2002 is a palindrome. I had to look it up in the dictionary.
Sincerely Yours
Willow
Posted by wendy b. on January 2, 2002, at 14:24:05
In reply to 2002 is a palindrome, posted by kazoo on January 1, 2002, at 2:27:29
Kazoo,
I had hoped your absence from the board for a while was not related to something bad happening in yor life... I regret that this was the case.
Incompetency in any profession is a travesty of the field, and of others who do their jobs with skill and honesty and ethics. In the medical field, it is a matter of life and death. Your loss is inconceivable to me... I hope you have others around you for solace and care. Please let us know.
I have other questions because I can't believe the horror of what you've been through, but I'll save them for another time. Perhaps there is something we could learn from your experience...
I'm so very sorry,
Wendy
Posted by dreamer on January 2, 2002, at 16:11:59
In reply to Re: 2002 is a palindrome » kazoo, posted by wendy b. on January 2, 2002, at 14:24:05
Posted by kazoo on January 3, 2002, at 1:23:13
In reply to KAZOO.. keep in touch... me n everyone worried (nm), posted by dreamer on January 2, 2002, at 16:11:59
My friends:
First, I want to thank everyone for their kind words and support. I have been told so many times that it's terrible when a parent loses a child, and I know this to be true (my brother Joe was murdered in 1994 and this broken my parent's heart). But I want to tell you now that losing your parents is equally as hard. No matter how distant you may think you are from your folks, the truth is that you are not. They're your best friends. Please don't forget this.
As if I don't have enough hardship in my life as it is, I am now faced with a greedy, conniving older sister who, for the past 16 years, emotionally abused both my mother and father. Now she is sticking her greasy little hand out hoping to cash in on my parent's estate. This woman is a pathological liar and a thief and I formally disown her as my sister. She says she reads this board and I hope she's reading this now. I did have a "special" message addressed to her, but I decided to wait.
Again, my friends, thanks for your help. The real "test" of my strength is just beginning.
kazoo
Posted by kiddo on January 3, 2002, at 1:39:22
In reply to Re: KAZOO.. keep in touch... thank you., posted by kazoo on January 3, 2002, at 1:23:13
I'm sorry things keep happening to you. It sounds to me as if your 'sister' really cared about your parents [insert sarcasm]. I can't imagine that any parent would want that kind of behavior from their children. It's amazing to me how people treat their family and then expect to gain from it when their gone. I had an aunt exactly like her-and I've not spoken to her since. I won't even allow her name to be said in my home.
Regardless of what happens, you'll be able to sleep at night-and the actions of your sister will one day come to haunt her. I hope she keeps this in mind if she has children of her own...I truly believe what comes around goes around...
Again, I'm sorry for your loss and what you are going through. I hope it gets better soon.
Kiddo
> My friends:
>
> First, I want to thank everyone for their kind words and support. I have been told so many times that it's terrible when a parent loses a child, and I know this to be true (my brother Joe was murdered in 1994 and this broken my parent's heart). But I want to tell you now that losing your parents is equally as hard. No matter how distant you may think you are from your folks, the truth is that you are not. They're your best friends. Please don't forget this.
>
> As if I don't have enough hardship in my life as it is, I am now faced with a greedy, conniving older sister who, for the past 16 years, emotionally abused both my mother and father. Now she is sticking her greasy little hand out hoping to cash in on my parent's estate. This woman is a pathological liar and a thief and I formally disown her as my sister. She says she reads this board and I hope she's reading this now. I did have a "special" message addressed to her, but I decided to wait.
>
> Again, my friends, thanks for your help. The real "test" of my strength is just beginning.
>
> kazoo
Posted by Noa on January 3, 2002, at 18:11:10
In reply to 2002 is a palindrome, posted by kazoo on January 1, 2002, at 2:27:29
I am so sorry to hear this news! How awful for you.
Posted by Shar on January 6, 2002, at 10:20:23
In reply to Re: 2002 is a palindrome, posted by Greg on January 1, 2002, at 20:33:14
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