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Posted by shasling on June 6, 2009, at 1:58:30
well i tell you what i went out for the first time in a long time and was my self. It was great, my freinds and everything. They are interesting and i love em. All of them are different. I had a great day.
It was kind of unhealthy, but who cares lol. My friends eat alot of fast food. Plus, dont judge, we got bored and went to a hookah bar.You had no reason to inform us it was a "hooker" bar,that is a insultful phrase.A simple bar visit would have proved you point just as easy minus "hooker bar"
I was nervous about the whole idea since I didnt know if it was going to make me real anxious or not. But neway, it was so freaking relaxing and just was awesome. I told my friends about everything, struggles and all and basically all the stuff ive been sort of sheilding away from them.
anyway thats the last time i think ill do the hookah thing. But anyway best day ever!!
So you spend a day in remission at a hooker bar,again tmi i dont think anyone needed to know you were at any thing other then a bar.I dont think its really a secret or anything, i saw this coming with myself. I knew i was getting better but im really impatient. I figured out something psychologically about myself that just blew me away and from that point Ive been much better. I figured out I am a controlling person, hence my social anxiety and eating disorder, substance abuse past, compulsive lying.
Social anxiety to me is just a simple control issue (sorry if you disagree).
You should state you BELIEVE social anxiety is a mind control issue unless you can dispute scans showing otherwise.Stating it the way you do proposes it as a fact,so "I" feel its dangerous misconception to post it as a fact rather a opinion.social phobics need to control peoples opinions, and they cant so they get super overwhelmed. Thats why social phobics like animals alot, because they can control the opinion of the dog/cat. Because the animals cant talk so we dont feel anxious around them.
And substance abuse is another control issue, people have to use a substance to bring out a false self so they can control peoples opinions. They need a substance to make them talkative and "happy" so they can trick people and hide their true self because they are ashamed.
There is a sbustance abuse board,and for a 17 year old you sure speak in a tone of fact on a disease youre not possably old enough to fully understand.
But really they shouldnt be ashamed because they are great people, but they have a disorder.
I mean just finding this out is insane, its like another enlightenment. Im finally making the progress ive wanted to for a year or years now.And hey i reccomend this. I found it looking up control on google. Its a good one.
http://www.easycalm.com/?hop=cffshpgrlBut hey this is a really deep issue so I mean Idk if everyone is going to understand.
I know when I first had an eating disorder and social phobia, a psychiatrist gave me a book about OCD and i didnt understand. And my therapist said stuff about control too. I didnt even understand at the time. So obviously some people wont see it in themselves.Anyway good luck and love u all
I noticed your first post stated you were in remission,no "how" kinda like a hold tight for the answer folks thing.You never actualy state how you came around,you dance around it and then paste a link to a over ovious pay product.
If your p-d thats your opinion,however my feeling is i see right through you.
Posted by sam K on June 6, 2009, at 2:30:35
In reply to Lil more on my opinion.., posted by shasling on June 6, 2009, at 1:58:30
woah, you taken this really far. But im willing to take it far also. I am not a weak person and never will be shasling. Ive gone through so much sh*t you wouldnt beleive and Im not about to care what some random person says on the internet about it.
And thank you my heart is racing from this attack (i perseve it as an attack) and I am full of energy. Thanks for the stimulation
I read your above post, just now, and you said you have a rage problem. Im sorry, and i see my post has made you angry.
Please read:
Ive posted on this board a while and I have never posted my age. Why? because I know it would be held against me. I figure people think im 20 or so. But trust me I am not 17 on the inside. I am extremly wise and thoughtful. I have suffered ultra severe depression and anxiety. I have anger issues too, social anxiety, eating disorder and just plain spiritual confusion.
anyway im gonna stop, im calm now neway
Posted by sam K on June 6, 2009, at 2:40:43
In reply to Lil more on my opinion.., posted by shasling on June 6, 2009, at 1:58:30
it is hookah bar. Not hooker. Hookah bar is a bar where you smoke tobbaco out of a special pipe. I know it sounds immature but it is what it is.
Posted by shasling on June 6, 2009, at 4:57:07
In reply to and, posted by sam K on June 6, 2009, at 2:40:43
I stand corrected on the hookah bar,and i apologise for that.
However i still feel your message was a ploy to insert that link which makes outragoues claims to what it can do.
I also wont post back,if im hit with an uncivil fine,i just like the way you posted how u were doing well,with no explanation how,knowing your next post would get that more attention,lol oh man im done with this thread.
Posted by sam K on June 6, 2009, at 11:20:02
In reply to Re: and, posted by shasling on June 6, 2009, at 4:57:07
just as you misunderstood the hookah bar part, you misunderstood the wholllllle post. I think you have a problem with jealousy, as i do, and you are mad because I am getting attention for something you think isnt worthy of attention.
Posted by shasling on June 6, 2009, at 17:10:23
In reply to well, posted by sam K on June 6, 2009, at 11:20:02
Well i have been in flame wars a long time in goog boards.
Looking back,i would have choose to just let this go.
Yess your right,i do get jealous,or envy people who achieve success and remission,but in a kinder way,i use it to help give me hope,personaly i never argue someones view or way they acchieve their mood when they are in remission,its a goal of everyone here,and a goal i wish for myself any all who ever feel the true pain of the disease,how you get there,how you get out,has whatever method you use i dont worry,remission is the end goal and im hoping everyone knows i wish this to all.Later guys been trying to get to see the da- terminator movie.
Posted by gardenergirl on June 6, 2009, at 17:25:11
In reply to Re: well/Not Upset, posted by shasling on June 6, 2009, at 17:10:23
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> Later guys been trying to get to see the da- terminator movie.Ooh, have fun and let us know what you think of the movie. :)
gg
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