Posted by alexandra_k on July 22, 2021, at 6:43:51
In reply to Re: neighbors, posted by alexandra_k on July 22, 2021, at 6:33:52
AAAh, so my point was...
A little while ago I felt inspired to drop a note under my neighbours door. Asking them to turn the volume / vibration of their bass down just a notch or a tad.
I think they may actually be aspiring musicians in some capacity. I mean... I think they are in earnest creating music. Whether it is Kareoke or more... I think they are creating...
I don't have problems with the quality of it. Or whatever. Just the vibrations... That they persist through to 2am or whatever... The other noises don't actually bother me for being transient. A bit of noise in the hallway. The odd whiff of mj. Live and let live. They are pretty low-key. I don't have a problem with them insofar as they keep it pretty low-key. Just a tad or a notch off of the base vibration and they can party 24/7 with blessings from me, even...
But of course the note under the door wasn't enough for them to just set it a tad lower.
So... After not much time at all I need to present myself with an actual knock on the door...
It sucks. Because it would be terrific if everyone could be as loud as they wanted in their own home.
I feel bad for asking them to be quieter than they would choose for themselves.
It isn't fair.
But that's the nature of keeping or holiding people in conditions such that...
Yeah.
I think people will understand rj. I think people do.
I think maybe... You feel slightly... Paranoid? That people are judging you harshly. And I am not sure that that is justified. I understand that you feel self-conscious. Yes. But I am not convinced that people are judging you for any actual crimes that you need to feel sorry or remorseful about...
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