Posted by rjlockhart37 on September 21, 2014, at 22:13:33
i just came through a hell of a emotion whip after i found out my friend of my childhood blocked me on facebook, no reason, and i have a hunch because i didnt talk to her and kept in contact with her in years, we went to waterparks and enjoyed so much time together, and you know part of this is my fault, not keeping in contact, but i do change into diffrent people every couple years, i don't want to be the one of my past, so..... there's a point where you have face if you will return to a relationship that will be the same as it was in the past, previous ex's, i've noticed alot of people who are closest to someone hurt or turn their back on.....and can hurt badly....you cacn have a warm heart and forgive, and come to reconcile, or cold it out, and spit on the grave and say never again.....and never feel guilty.....cut out hte sentimental memories and cold hard seal it ....choose to become a type of a sociopath, feel no emotion or regret
but enough with yakking my blubber blabber....
a relationship:
1)you get to know the person and like them
2)start to want to come back to that person and be wiht them and talk
3)you start to emotionally connect wtih them, have heart to heart events, and conversations
4)they become on a prioity list of people that concern you
5)and usally love starts that you will offer to help and do things for that person....or the relationship
6)and then it goes into the memory banks....but the most painful feeling to feel is when you realize "there gone" even when you cold seal a relationship.....the memory is still there
so......
anyways there's not much benefit of writing this.....
so......
end.......logging out
r
not a scholar but understand distress.....
"unheard pain, is the told through good company"
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