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fakeness and social masks - need to discuss

Posted by rjlockhart37 on May 12, 2014, at 17:42:22

so....it's been a good a mother's day...i stayed with my mom until she went to work.....good times, but what i'm realizing in my relationship with my girlfriend, is ... it's starting to not be real and more of a chore to do rather than being in love....and that is pure fakeness....wearing a mask and being sweet, under that is uncertanity and really i don't know what to do, until i can work with my real side, and not alter ego masks, it's all deciet and it's not good, it's lying in a relationship and usally this will result in adultury or cheating on someone, because the intrest is lost, and new intrests are open....thats the whole deal with marriges that lose their love rave period, you have to make a point that you are going to love this person no matter what, and not lie and flatter with love statements, and not mean any of it.

so....this is difficult period, im in a relationship, but i do care for her, yet it's always being bossed around, and saying she likes my charm, but it's really getting a desicion if i am going to live up to my statements when i say i love, and not wear a plastic smiley face mask that i take off when i leave.....that is bad, it hurts people and i can't do that anymore, i have to bring my real side out....

so....but more than just this, what to you think guys about masks, and smiling all the time, and it has b*llsh*t written all over it.....

anyone just wanna make a quick thought on this?

r


not a scholar but understand distress.....
"unheard pain, is the told through good company"

 

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