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Re: What Fresh Hell Is This????....hi » Phillipa

Posted by Jay_Original1 on June 2, 2013, at 23:26:58

In reply to Re: What Fresh Hell Is This????....hi » Jay_Original1, posted by Phillipa on June 2, 2013, at 0:10:03

> Jay that's definitely negligence. I used to do medical malpractice as an RN and this is not policy of any hospital that I know of to have a patient that was ordered a type of safety devise to keep her safe being left off. You do have a case. These were the only type of cases I did those where the cause and effect were so clear cut. How did the notes of nurse read? And I'm so sorry for your loss. I know not that many on babble. Phillipa

Ohhhh gawd I really get quite emotional just reading this back. The tears won't give me a break. Thank you so kindly. I am actually a very timid guy, but when the Coroner called two days after my Mom's passing, and told me he was going to rule her death as 'accidental', I hit the roof and asked him how the hell he came up with that? I told him the original nurse who had contacted me said Mom only had 'two small bumps' on her head. We got to the hospital, and they wouldn't even let me in her ****ing room to see her! It took them almost 4 hours to transport her to the major hospital about a half hour away! In all that time, she was in pain, and I will sure as hell make sure somebody pays a price for that. Sorry....it's just all so fresh. And then there is the huge heated argument between my sister and I. When my Mom was alive, all my sister kept talking about was thinking she could just shove my Mom and Dad into a Nursing home. Well, sucks to be her, because I had the full power of attorney, and any such decision would not be made until I got a full scope of my Mom's future needs. I got so mad at my sister I swore at her and hung up the phone on her. Then I sent her the email from Hell which maybe I shouldn't have, but I had a ton of pressure on my shoulders. It just all went so damn wrong...everything. And I feel guilt that I wasn't there to protect my Mom, like I promised her I always would. (And like she did for me...). Sorry for dragging this out...I don't really have anyone to talk to. My own brother, who lives five minutes around the block from my Dad and I, stops 'in' once every few weeks. Nice family, eh?

Thanks..I really mean it!!!!
Jay


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