Posted by Dr. Bob on February 20, 2013, at 14:29:49
In reply to Re: real human communication » Dr. Bob, posted by Dinah on February 19, 2013, at 13:13:54
> Sooo... You *could* say that what I was trying to say was ... "a combination of genuine communication (sharing one's own feelings, hopes, and insecurities) and this technique has the potential to help some people feel connected."
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> Does that bring us anywhere near the same page? How would you summarize your view?I agree, some, but not all, people. Nothing works for everyone.
OK, the 1st step is hearing the other person accurately. I think we've accomplished that.
The 2nd step is for me to express my view/feeling:
My view is that communication being genuine is important, but isn't necessarily sufficient. For example, a communication could be genuine, but uncivil. My view is that this technique might help posters communicate in ways that are both genuine and supportive.
Now, having heard my view, you can assess whether you feel we're on the same page. Do you?
Bob
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