Posted by Emme-V2 on October 1, 2011, at 20:23:55
In reply to Re: Should I have a child or not? » PhoenixGirl, posted by torrid on October 1, 2011, at 19:09:31
> How about looking at it from the other direction, you listed reasons not to become a mother, make a list of reason to become a mother
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> Women don't truely grow up until they have kids
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> you don't know how much you are capable of loving another human being until you have kids.
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> children give life purpose.
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> it's a labor of love.
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> It may not be the right thing for you but look at all sides. As far as the genetic thing, gosh I don't know.Does the converse hold true that those of us women who have not been blessed with children have no purpose in life?
Do you really truly believe that those of us women who wanted children but for various reasons have not had them are not really grown up?
Please think carefully about what you write on such a delicate topic.
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