Posted by Phillipa on November 21, 2010, at 0:56:06
In reply to I would rather someone jump in my, posted by glydin50 on November 20, 2010, at 21:52:32
Yup my ex-husband did it cause wouldn't meet him two hours away for lunch and my husband knew and had no problem with it. My nephew did it to me today and we then discussed in private what happened and now friends again. So nice when you can discuss the problem without fear and resolve it. Something maybe that should be allowed here. Who knows maybe tomorrow he or someone else will get upset. Like hanging up the phone. Then you resolve the issue. Sometimes it really hurts. So much so that you can't convey your feelings. I've never gotten mad just hurt. According to my pdoc that is cause of all the verbal abuse from mother and husbands and even kids. She said we all have a threshold of what the mind can take then we kind of snap and coping mechanisms gone. I fear anger and run away from it. Verbal abuse is worse than physical
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