Posted by yoga_lucy on November 17, 2010, at 2:37:33
In reply to Re: Incapable of love?, posted by Dinah on November 16, 2010, at 18:33:32
Sometimes it seems I have no feelings at all for people. But I do think that I am compassionate and empathetic at other times.
I asked her because he left last week. I asked her because I wanted to know how it would make her feel if he were to stay gone. He usually leaves when he gets angry, sometimes for days at time, this time for a week. He takes his ring off..
I think it's him. Perhaps it is apparent to my daughter's sub-conscience that we are not stable, or that he does not want to be here.
I think he has issues making deep connections, or maybe it is me or the combination of us? This is why I haven't left him or let him go when he leaves for days at a time. We are only a year into our marriage, I feel like if I stick it out he will see that he really is loved, and maybe I will get that in return.
I know this sounds more like just relationship issues and less like mental health issues but there is something going on here. Something deep. We are missing a connection.
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