Posted by Dinah on August 3, 2009, at 1:06:55
In reply to Re: Kissing lessons lol » Justherself54, posted by P h i l on August 3, 2009, at 0:54:37
I was also speaking from experience, Phil.
I never liked kissing anyone until my husband. Never mind pursed lips and clenched teeth, I ducked any attempts at what to me seems to be the ultimate in intimacy. With my husband, I was different. I thought he must be the best kisser anywhere. More likely he was the best guy for me, and so I was more responsive.
Pursed lips and clenched teeth can be a sign that a woman doesn't wish the intimacy that comes with open lipped, tongue thrusting kissing. Thus, she may be signaling that she's not interested in intimacy with that particular guy. Or maybe that he had garlic and onions for dinner. Maybe that's not always the case, but I'll bet it's often the case.
I'm still likely a lousy kisser. Fortunately my husband apparently has different priorities. If this is a priority for you, then you should look for it in a woman. Just like I was only interested in smart and funny and chock-full of integrity, and didn't relax my standards.
And I still think kissing is more intimate than sex. It's not something I'd want to do with very many people.
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