Posted by Sigismund on June 14, 2009, at 1:58:25
In reply to Re: Balancing acceptance and change, posted by alexandra_k on June 14, 2009, at 1:51:53
>i didn't mean to dysregulate all over deneb's thread
Well, in that case, I had been going to say something along these lines....that some people put their distress out there and ask for help, which I take it is what Deneb does. I'd never do that. There's pluses and minuses. If you ask for help and the people who offer it don't like your responses, you can have a problem. And if you don't ask for help, there can be problems there too. Everyone has to find their own way.