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Re: I can't stop crying Deneb

Posted by SLS on June 2, 2009, at 6:07:12

In reply to I can't stop crying, posted by Deneb on June 1, 2009, at 14:39:00

> Sounds condescending that he wants to "teach" you. yuck.

I'm with everyone else on this one. My first reaction was "yuck" - for so many reasons. I recommend that you stay away, Deneb.

27 is younger than you would believe. You are not the latest of "bloomers" that I have seen. I was substantially older than 27 when I felt myself become socially accomodated. My sister was in her late 30s before she blossomed. I never thought she would. I am not sure, but it seems that you have the clear advantage of being honest with yourself. You seem to be honest in your posting here. You will learn very quickly.

Please learn a lesson here. This guy went from one extreme to the other in the way he is treating you. The last thing you need is instability. You do not need a teacher as a friend. You need a friend as a friend. With a true friend, you will learn automatically.

* I forgive you for looking for forgiveness from someone you don't need to receive forgiveness from. :-) You did nothing wrong.

Take one step at a time.

Keep posting. It seems to help.

Do you go for psychotherapy? That is a good place for one-on-one learning.

I'm sorry to ask something that everyone else probably knows.

Be well.


- Scott

 

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