Posted by SLS on February 15, 2009, at 6:51:17
In reply to Re: No Valentine this year. Maybe next year. » SLS, posted by Bobby on February 14, 2009, at 23:14:54
> > Some men understand very little about women except for how to string them along. And he will do so successfully, as long as you think there might be any chance for love and union.
> Guilt and memories can string you along successfully as well. Forgiveness must be complete---just like kids and dogs do. Don't beat yourself up forever---at least you have a conscience. I hope next year someone digs that.
Guilt actually trapped me in a relationship with a woman for a few years. I did not want to end it, even though I had never been in love with her. I felt guilty and did not want to hurt her. Besides, our lives had been choreographed by others, and I would feel guilty if I didn't follow the script. I was a real mess. I didn't understand and act on my emotions.
- Scott
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