Posted by fayeroe on December 14, 2008, at 8:48:16
In reply to Ostracism on social networking sites hurts, posted by Partlycloudy on December 13, 2008, at 17:46:23
It does hurt. Alot. I've felt it over the years and ir hurts the hell out of me. Especially, if I've grown to feel that I can be accepted and loved.
I was more than bothered with all of the hell that was raised last week over HF..after the fact..Letting someone hurt that long without having a private chat or making more effort to help her is also a form of very painful ostracicsm....sorta takes the support out of "support forum" for one, doesn' it>
But I look at it the same way that I look at a person who tries to disrespect me with words.
At work, some people will become upset if a student tries to "have their way" with me verbally. I look at it like this, PC...as much as they think that they are disrespecting me...huh uh..they disrespect themselves more.Anyone who practices the skills of ostracisms on social networking sites already had a problem (themselves) before me..but they ain't gonna become my problem. People like that aren't worth the time it takes a frog to sneeze!(New Central Texas saying..1 minute old)
I love you oodles and oddles and unconditionally and with sugar on it and a spot of tea and sour cream cookes by a creek kind of love. Pat
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