Posted by gardenergirl on June 29, 2008, at 16:38:36
In reply to Re: Two Freaking Days? Sounds accurate » gardenergirl, posted by Racer on June 29, 2008, at 12:42:06
I can't seem to find a thread. It was after hubby said he didn't want kids, but before I got in to see my T. In case I didn't post it, and just for context about this visit...
When my hubby visited them in January, they sat him down and said he looked unhappy. It must be my fault. And here's what you need to know to divorce me. Totally out of the blue. Never bothered with any intermediary suggestions like, oh I don't know, talking, counseling, etc. Didn't bother to confirm with him that they were right. Poor guy. They put him in a terrible position. Points to him for telling me all about it and keeping me posted as the crap went on. I visited my family in March and made a point of going to see them to confront them. It was awkward, and my FIL never admitted to any wrongdoing. My MIL felt terrible once she realized how hurt I was and how offbase they were. It's been really difficult, so the idea of welcoming them into my home, let alone with no notice is not exactly thrilling.
If I did post that somewhere, sorry for repeating. I can't find anything with search anymore for some reason.
Anywhoo, thanks for input so far. I just might hire someone tomorrow if I can. And if not, I'll just walk around the house with a squint and see what still shows up. :)
gg
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