Posted by Kath on August 15, 2007, at 20:36:51
In reply to Gabbi, Phillipa, Slinky....oh what a story to tell, posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on August 15, 2007, at 11:26:28
Jay - how exciting that this happened. OK so you froze this time. Maybe next time you won't.
And HEYYYYYYYY She started talking to YOU. Do you think your few extra pounds bothered her?
I don't theeeenk so!!!!!!Please - do NOT worry about that. My daughter married a man who was massively overweight. I think he might have weighed 280 & wasn't super tall. Unfortunately, he's no longer living. He died of cancer (nothing to do with the weight). He was wonderful. You know, people's vibes go out from them. That lady was obviously resonating with YOU - your vibes.
Deeeeeeeep breaths if it happens again. If it happens once, it'll happen again. I take it you like to read? Well, see what happened? You were somewhere that reflected your interest & you (sorta) 'met' someone who also shares that interest & HEY - she liked something about you or she wouldn't have said anything. She noticed you. And I doubt very much if it had ANYthing to do with looks.
OK - I suspect that any of us would prefer someone who's attractive (maybe I'm wrong), but I bet a lot of us put more importance on what a person is like. To her, you were at least this person who liked books & could stand around looking at books for quite a while!!
Yay for you!!!!!!
Hugs, Kath
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