Posted by polarbear206 on June 26, 2007, at 11:30:10
In reply to I hate my mother, posted by linkadge on June 25, 2007, at 17:48:47
> I have zero respect for my mother. She is just lazy, she is not ill.
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> She uses her bipolar disorder as an excuse to get out of anything she doesn't want to do.
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> All she wants is to lie around and pop pills. She has no ability to solve her own problems anymore, she just thinks in terms of the next pill to escape.
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> She is the embodiment of all that I hate and despise about humankind.
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> She doesn't think of anybody but herself. She has the energy to go swimming and visit friends, yet when it comes to doing anything around the house she is "too ill".
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> She is a liar, and I hate her. She is so self absorbed that she cannot see how hard her husband works and how little she does.
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> She is taking like 8 different drugs, yet still wants more. She increases doses of drugs without asking her doctor, and has absolutely no desire to recover. She likes being ill, as it is a get out of life free card for her.Yikes! Polypharmacy, not a good thing. Shame on her p-doc for allowing this.
I would accompany her to her appointments, or write him a letter and tell him how you feel. It's obvious she is not being upfront with him.
> I think she is a waste of space and I want to tell it to her face but I could no longer live at home if I did such a thing.
This kind of toxic enviroment is not good. Can't you hold a job down? Live with a relative or a friend? Maybe that would be a wake up call for her if she is dependent on you.
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> Sorry for the rant, but I cannot take it anymore.
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