Posted by Fivefires on February 23, 2007, at 14:18:29
In reply to as bad as this sounds... » Crazy Horse, posted by karen_kay on February 23, 2007, at 11:50:54
KK ... wow ... u do what I do..., or at least, from what you've said, that's what I'm getting.
If ever I felt like a partner might be headed for the door, I'll start to push him out in a round about way ... leaving him to feel like he'd made the decision.
Until a few days ago, I thought I was being kind doing this ... letting him think it was his idea, ya' know lettin' him be able to say 'it was I who left her'.
But then I heard this expression, can't remember word for word, butt sounded something like this: 'blah blah is the coward's way out of ending a relationship'. After I heard that, I've felt bad! All this time, I'd thought it was the kinder way of ending a relationship .. but it's the coward's way??? Whoa .. me a coward? What do ya' think KK? Do ya' get what I'm saying, and does anyone think 'it is the coward's way'?
And hey M, once my illness surfaced and my almost perfect personality was somewhat pushed aside, I lost someone I still miss very much. Still I await what you finally found CrazyH!
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