Posted by Kath on January 28, 2007, at 19:38:31
My husband goes in tomorrow at 6:30 a.m. to have his gall bladder removed. This has been booked for some time. He's scared cuz he's never had an operation before, but has had bad GB attacks so is relieved to be having this taken care of.
My son was to have arrived at 8 p.m. tonite. Flight delayed 'til at least 1 a.m. so he'll be home tomorrow.
I've had a hard day; easier since knowing his flight was delayed.
I'm pretty freaked because I am suspecting that his GF is pulling away. I might be reading things into things she's said, son saying she is seeming distant etc. I'm wondering what's going on. She says she's going back to BC in a month to stay with the friends who've taken over the apartment. I feel like just asking her if there's something going on, but she will lie if under stress, so that wouldn't be any good.
My ex-husband had an affair, so I think I'm being triggered BIG-time. And I don't even know if anything is happening. My hubby, who is pretty 'grounded' says given all the things that have been being said, etc, he also wonders!
I wouldn't blame her for pulling away in a way, but I hate to think of my son having THAT to deal with as well as everything else. I'm trying to stay in the now. It is REALLY hard. I don't even feel like myself!!
:-(( Kath (I think!)
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