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Re: need

Posted by Meri-Tuuli on June 1, 2006, at 12:04:29

In reply to Re: need, posted by Larry Hoover on June 1, 2006, at 4:34:47

hey there Lar,

Yeah, my father is in massive debt too - mainly due to a perchant for foreign women. He's on wife number 4 now (plus countless girlfriends), a Russian lady who still lives in St Petersburg, probably because she's worked out that he's relatively broke. His previous wife, a South Korean woman, left him tangled up with dodgy investments in S Korea, and things he won't fully go into.

What really really really hurts is that even through he's a captain in the merchant navy (and hence has earnt a considerable salary in his time) I have seen absolutely nothing of it, zero. We'll go out for a meal and he claims that he's too broke to pay for it - yet new wifey will have new outfits, cell phone, jewerly etc etc. and if she wanted to go to a fancy resaurant, they'd simply go!

I obviously wouldn't even mind if he were *properly* broke, but no, shiney new things for new wifey take priority over his only daughters welfare(in my childhood), which he could easily have afforded if he wanted to, plus I only ever saw him maybe once for an afternoon every three years. He had plenty of access to me- he simply chose not to see me - too preoccupied with new wifey/girlfriends. Which really hurts. It would have been easier for me if he'd died. All I ever wanted was for him to be a regular dad.

The sad thing is that the new wives will always disappear and it'll be me at his hospital bed when he gets ill.

Oh well. Sorry to hijack!

Anyway, Kind regards

Meri


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