Posted by TexasChic on April 22, 2006, at 14:12:45
In reply to Jay's Journal: Webdate..the AD..comm.please, posted by Jay on April 22, 2006, at 0:40:03
If it were me, and I'm far from an expert on any of this, I would try to keep your ad as positive as possible. That's the kind I would respond to anyway. I don't think there's any reason to mention anything about not focusing on appearance, bank accounts, or looking for something cheap, ect., (although people do it all the time) because no one's going to know if you're actually telling the truth or not. In fact, when I see statements like that it makes me think the guy has something to hide. So you may as well keep those qualities to show when you actually meet up with someone. You're trying to get someone interested enough to respond and give you a chance, so don't list what you consider your failings. All the stuff about what you have to give is great though. Just try to avoid saying anything negative about yourself, and I think you will come across more as you hope to.
As for that chic blocking you, what a psycho! Be glad you don't have to deal with her.
Keep up the good work. At least you're trying, which stands alot more chance of success than not trying at all! Which is more than I can say for myself.
-T
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