Posted by Deneb on April 4, 2006, at 19:34:59
In reply to Re: I wonder why Dr. Bob won't accept my scarf » Deneb, posted by LegWarmers on April 4, 2006, at 19:06:33
> healthy boundaries
Boundaries! I don't know why I didn't think of boundaries! LOL I completely forgot about boundaries.
I think I get it now. Dr. Bob can't accept my gift because he doesn't want to be my friend? That sounds a little horrible. Maybe Dr. Bob wants to be my friend but he can't because he has to be objective as an administrator? Maybe Dr. Bob doesn't want to encourage my love obsession for him by sending me mixed messages and confusing me? That means Dr. Bob doesn't like me loving him. :-( But then he said that he appreciates the love...so what does it mean?
I'm getting confused. LegWarmers, you seem to have a good grasp of why Dr. Bob can't accept my scarf....can you explain it to me more?
Would Dr. Bob have accepted my gift if I didn't love him? Would Dr. Bob accept my money? He would probably accept money right? I think he has accepted donations from posters.
Deneb
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