Posted by Meri-Tuuli on March 31, 2006, at 10:15:34
In reply to Re: Trigger....stuff..... » Meri-Tuuli, posted by wildcard11 on March 31, 2006, at 8:50:51
Hi!
> it seems waterfall does not want to start that again for herself...what is best for you may not be for her. i think we all have ways of releasing pain, some we are okay with and some that we dislike. she appears to dislike the cutting...i used to handle things one way but didn't like it so i changed, others it works better for.In my previous post, I wasn't referring to ANYBODY specifically -- I thought that was clear. I was just wondering, in a philoshopical sense, what was wrong with SI and what were other peoples' thoughts on it, ie why they like to do it or why they don't like to do it and their reasons. Maybe it would be better placed in a new thread so as to not interrupt Waterfall's thread. It just got me thinking, because I view SI in a postive light, although I understand that others don't and I was hoping to understand why other people view it in a bad light.
For me, personally, I find SI to be a useful coping mechanism that works. And I don't think it is dangerous.
> i'm sorry you hurt too (((Meri-Tuuli)))
Thank you!! I think that was my first virual hug (if those brackets are meant to be a hug!!!)
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