Posted by bird in the sky on December 29, 2005, at 14:16:58
In reply to Re: Am i the only one who has done this ? » bird in the sky, posted by Larry Hoover on December 29, 2005, at 7:35:27
> > I have this bad habit. I wonder if anyone else does. Probably not. I sometimes feel real horny and desirous of some connection. That's the best way i can explain it now. I masturbate and then when almost to come i call someone up (hopefully a recording) and let them hear me come.
> Lar replied:
> I've received calls something like that. I don't know if that might be a comforting thought, though. Is it?
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> Because I think there's something about your behaviour that isn't going to ever be comfortable....right?
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> I don't know if it's illegal. Whatever. I know you're not happy with it. And I think it's the kind of thing to find a therapist to talk to about. Cognitive behavioural therapy seems like it should be a good fit. You've talked about it here, so I think you're looking for a way to manage your behaviour differently. A sex therapist, I would think.
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> Lar
It does make me feel better that you have rec'd calls similiar to mine. Were they women or men? i am curious. I have heard of men doing it to women and it seems like maybe it should be against the law. But for some reason when a woman does it, it doesnt seem as bad? I dont agree with my own logic, it just seems that way.i reason the sound is not offensive and the listener may not even know what it is. it is very comforting to know that someone (that i like and respect, but not necessarily am horny for) has heard me. It's when my emotions are real intense and somehow it goes to my crotch and i feel like i just have to release and share it. I haven't been doing it for quite a while, but the desire is still strong.
I don't want to bother these people i like and respect, but i think about it quite a lot and i think i release in other ways that are misdirected.
I don't know what to do. I have told my therapist. It would be comfortable to me if the listener was not bothered by it. i think...
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