Posted by annierose on December 21, 2005, at 17:10:00
In reply to A guilt guest, posted by Dinah on December 21, 2005, at 10:52:43
I like Clear Skies advice.
I think it's okay you said "yes" even though you don't exactly mean or want it for good reasons. But it's a nice thing to do. Knowing he is like your mother reminds you that it is how they were raised, it's who they are. By that, I'm trying to say, the way she interacts with you isn't because of who you are, it's who she is. Does that make sense?
My T likes to remind me not to take everything so personally every once in awhile. It's how they treat everybody, like it or not.
Your Christmas dinner sounds yummy. I'd like to come over too. I make Christmas Eve dinner ... all Italian food, don't know how I started that silly tradition, but now my kids expect it. And it's easy.
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