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Re: At the End of the Cleaning Cycle » AdaGrace

Posted by alexandra_k on October 7, 2005, at 20:31:47

In reply to At the End of the Cleaning Cycle, posted by AdaGrace on October 7, 2005, at 19:53:15

> At what point do you just give up and say "f" it. I can only clean so much every day and they will swoop in and mess it up again. I seriously dispise my filthy rotten family.

hmm...
i seem to remember you saying something about this before...
how old are they????
i seem to remember... them being old enough to clean up after themselves...

you don't do them any favours from being their slave you know...
they will only expect it from others later in life...
(boys will expect their wives to do it)
(girls will believe they *should* do it or feel plagued by guilt)

there are some good feelings of self-sufficiency and independence and ability to look after oneself that comes from looking after oneself...

and you are indispensible to them in numerous other ways...
you really really are
you don't need to be their slave adagrace

:-)

 

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