Posted by Damos on August 24, 2005, at 18:23:36
In reply to Hello, I'm ruminating...., posted by sleepygirl on August 23, 2005, at 21:40:42
Hey Sleepy,
I think my pc is trying ot tell me something. Everytime I try to reply to your post it crashes - 4 x now GRRRHHH.
My advice is just to follow your heart and be guided by your understanding of the person. As long as it comes from caring and love, if you're a bit to strong they'll understand and help you to be okay that they're okay. The important thing is to show you care, offer what support and assistance you can and then leave it up to them. Kinda like puting a roast in the oven. You need to keep an eye on it from time to time but not stand in front of the oven door the whole time. You can go and do other things and just check back every now and then to see how it's going, and do whatever needs to be done. Am I talking complete sh*t here or what? Hmmm, yep I think so.
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