Posted by gardenergirl on June 11, 2005, at 1:00:06
In reply to Re: ((((((GG)))))) in the Windy City ... again! » gardenergirl, posted by annierose on June 10, 2005, at 21:44:17
> GG-
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> You're probably back in Chicago (I think).
Not yet...tomorrow night.
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> Men, they just don't think like we do. Our brains are wired differently.Heck yah. His is like a straight line. Mine is like little Billy from the cartoon the Family Circus. You know, when he has to go run an errand, and mom says go straight there and come straight back, and he goes all over the place? Welcome to my brain.
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> I do think as we change and grow and get healthier, it is scary for our husbands.Yes, I think so, too.
> Mine actually just admitted to me that he is afraid that I'm going to leave him (as I get happier with myself). I replied, "I wouldn't think of it if you acted with kindess and thoughfullness all the time." He replied sarcasticly. Typical.
Yuck. But at least he mentioned his vulnerability. That's something. And then probably needed the sarcasm to cope with the anxiety.
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Sorry the marriage counseling didn't work, but it does sound like positive things are happening with your daughter's T. Good for you for taking care of your family by making sure they get wha they need in terms of help and support.
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> I hope if you did go to Chicago with him, you were able to enjoy his company and have a good time. I hope he said he was sorry a million times too. And I hope your headache went away.I hope we do, too. About the apology: Not a million times. Just once. And it was not all that heartfelt, but then again, he's a vulcan. (Spoc, nothing like you!). I had to ask him later if he did, because I couldn't remember. Did I mention earlier that he thought I would just be "a bit peeved"? um, guess again.
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> You're very special. Don't forget that!!Takes one to know one. :)
gg
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