Posted by Tamar on May 30, 2005, at 8:36:56
In reply to 'EYE need a WOMAN!!! (maybe a bit of *Trigger*), posted by jay on May 29, 2005, at 18:23:49
> Been a long time...been a long time...been a lonely lonely lonely...
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> Sorry...had a bad day today, went to my friend's grave...cryed and cryed and cryed..oh a river indeed! But, I put some flowers in for him and he has a nice little 'place' again. March 21'st...1989...19 years old..shot his head off...F*CK!!!...sorry..I'm so sorry about your friend.
> I just WISH there was some way to take these pounds I put on because of 10 years of meds. This Irish-Danish-French Lad misses the sweet lovin'...tenderness...all that mushy stuff some nice sweet gal could share with me...and I *always* double-share back. ;)
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> JayBeing overweight does not make you unattractive! My husband is over 300 lbs and gorgeous.
But if you think of yourself as unattractive, if you carry yourself as if you were unattractive, and if your body language screams, “don’t look at me” then perhaps people won’t look at you.
Can you go look at your @ss in the mirror and admire it? Tell yourself it’s cute and that all right-thinking women would want to grab it? And try to believe it.
Give *yourself* a bit of that ‘mushy stuff’ and I’m sure the girls will come flocking…
Tamar
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