Posted by alexandra_k on May 21, 2005, at 21:03:53
In reply to Re: Jumping to conclusions » alexandra_k, posted by Shy_Girl on May 21, 2005, at 19:19:10
> Sorry, I didn't mean to hurt anyone's feelings.
Thats ok. You didn't hurt my feelings.
(((Shygirl)))
I hope I didn't hurt yours.
I don't tend to respond to those sorts of posts...
It isn't that I don't care.
It is just that I can feel a bit like I'm talking to a brick wall.
I say 'yup I care'
Then need to say it the next day...
And the next day...
And the next day...
And it still isn't believed.
Whereas if I happen to miss a thread,
A day...
Then that is taken to be evidence that I *don't* care.
And so I feel as though I can't win
And why bother saying I do care...
And what is the point.That is my response.
I own that.
It isn't your fault.
But it is the way that I do respond.>I get very insecure sometimes.
Yeah.
Me too.
I do too.
It is hard to get over that.
I think thats something everybody works on to a certain degree.>It will take a while to learn about how to interact in a positive way with people.
I think its a lifelong thing.
(((Shygirl)))
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