Posted by Susan47 on April 29, 2005, at 22:48:16
In reply to Re: Curse » sunny10, posted by Toph on April 29, 2005, at 12:51:11
Toph don't read this, you're not allowed. Because it's my stuff but I'm using what you said.
The worst was always when my ex- said stuff about my mental state. He insulted my intelligence as well. As though I didn't have any because I was emotionally wrecked. As though everything bad that ever happened between us was something that was all my fault, all my problem, the reason for all of his problems, because he didn't want to understand .. what? What is there not to understand? Just because I don't understand myself, is that a reason to throw all this Hate at me? And once it starts, that kind of talk, that "Have you taken your meds today" stuff, once that starts it's the beginning of the slide, to not knowing whether you're trusted, or not.
It's a form of hatred being bestowed, and there's no way of stopping it. Because there's no one so vulnerable as a person who really DOES NOT have it together, who IS emotionally scarred ... doing that to someone who is mentally suffering is absolute garbage. There is no place for that in a loving relationship.
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