Posted by alexandra_k on February 28, 2005, at 15:36:08
In reply to Re: count me in? » alexandra_k, posted by AuntieMel on February 28, 2005, at 14:41:44
> I can't see how a rough upbringing can be beneficial at all.
>
> My kids didn't have the same environment I had and they grew up to be smart, funny, kind - and secure.I apologise if I sounded disrespectful to your horrible (and inexcusable) childhood experiences. I also apologise if I sounded disrespectful to your kids (and all those out there who had good upbringings).
I guess we will never know.
It just helps me to try to figure that some good has come of my experiences. Or at the very least that I can turn them into something good. Otherwise I am in danger of falling into the pit and raging 'it is not fair'.
But maybe it is a disrespectful idea.
I don't know.
Sorry.
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