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Re: Jay gives the Ultimatum..comments needed :)

Posted by Tabitha on February 12, 2005, at 16:48:58

In reply to Jay gives the Ultimatum..comments needed :), posted by jay on February 12, 2005, at 14:32:18

Since you've already sent this, I'm not sure what comments will be helpful. When I read that it sounds like a final kiss-off letter. I personally wouldn't want to try again after someone said that I lied in my ad and had nothing to offer.

Jay it sounds like the main deal-breaker for you here is that you're wanting more contact than she does. How about thinking of it as a case of two people wanting different things in a relationship, rather than one person being right and the other wrong? It might make for a more peaceful ending for both of you.

I'm just concerned that when you feel rejected by a woman, you seem to judge her pretty harshly. That's understandable, because you must be hurt and angry, but I'm afraid you might be building up resentment that could make it even harder to connect with the next potential partner.

 

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