Posted by 64bowtie on February 6, 2005, at 6:42:46
In reply to block is over.., posted by justyourlaugh on February 6, 2005, at 0:23:48
> anyone,,
> rod,,
> cloudy,,
> please help..(((((jyl))))),
Thanks for trusting that I might help.
I will.
I'm certain I can.
Wow!
(You and I have come a long way in one years time!)Critical questions:
Can you see past your meds?
Can you identify those who obligate you?
Can you own up to expectations you obligate others with?
Can you now see how these 'stress raisers', when they remain unreconciled, cause you conflicts, some internal, others external?
Can you abandon these obligations & expectations? Can you do it today?
Can you hold onto the abandonment for, mmmmmm, 3 days time, doing a 'wait-and-see?
The abandonment is only scary now because you never heard it said that way before.
Once you discover its relief from the 'stress raisers' in your life, its BETTER THAN CHOCOLATES!!!Rod
PS: I know! I been there! I used to think I couldn't live, be alive and safe, without living up to my obligations, and having my expectations. BUT WAIT! Its now almost 20 years later and I'm still breathing..... What's with that?
poster:64bowtie
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